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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/montana_406_mom on 2024-01-19 02:09:10+00:00.
I make a decent salary and pay all housing expenses, vacations, food, medical expenses including insurance, everything our kid needs, and whatever else comes along. My husband has been receiving disability for over a year now and pockets it. He buys his own gas for his car and stuff he wants. I asked if he could help pay our tax bill since he has not had SSI withhold any taxes but I have to include his SSDI in our tax filing. I have had extra withheld from my paycheck because we owed last year but I will still owe for 2023. He told me that has researched and he doesn't owe on his disability because he doesn't make enough. I explained that would be true if we weren't married. I ask for nothing 99% of the time. He told me to quit spending everything I make.