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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Oppenshitz on 2024-01-21 15:11:48+00:00.
The girl im dating [29] is a foreigner from africa and not white so I [26] wanted to show without telling her that i'm good with spicy food and therefore not like other white people who don't season food. So I cooked for her with some chilli in the stew and when she arrives she asks what flavours there are and I said that I made it spicy. But she tells me that she don't like spicy foods so she wonders if there is other food? There was enough left to make a second pot without chili so we eat that as well and I eat the spicy one. She thinks i am acting strange for assuming she likes it spicy. Otherwise the date was good but i'm worried that I might be a racist. I tweeted a joke about this date and someone called me an asshole/racis for assuming this. Am I the asshole?
[Sorry if my grammar is bad at some points, english is my second language]