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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/EveningShow5996 on 2024-01-22 15:54:27+00:00.
I (27 F) have been best friends for over 6 years with a guy. Let's call him James (29 M). I met him at my first job (he was an employee from a different company doing a business deal) and ended up becoming friends ever since. Me and him almost never had any kind of argument, this is actually maybe the first time we had a serious argument. He is very sweet, kind and gentle to me. He would frequently give me gifts like custom jewelry (necklaces, anklets etc). I usually would give him a sweater or a stuffed animal I knitted as a present. I'm feeling really guilty right now for being mad at him because he really is the bestest friend i could ask for. To clarify, the reason I am mad at him is not because he didn't ask for my "permission" or something. It's because I don't think he knows that a permanent tattoo is a irreversible change, because even if you remove the tattoo it would still leave marks. I'm just kinda worried he will regret it when he gets a girlfriend. We ended up having a 30 minute argument about this. Am I overreacting?