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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Practical-Clock-6784 on 2024-01-22 21:34:53+00:00.
So i’ve been w my fiancé since 2019, we recently got engaged and have been planning our wedding. My older sister has down syndrome and almost as soon as I brought him to meet me family and he started coming around often she developed an unhealthy obsession w him, it was almost like she fell
in love w him lol i know that sounds silly but that’s all i can really compare it to, she would sneak pictures of him on her phone, wrote love notes to him, would try to hold his hand, hug him, sit on his lap, ask for kisses just things that at first we brushed off bc her disability but even after my parents and her aide having numerous talks to her about what was appropriate and what wasn’t she still won’t let up. she cried and broke things in her room after we got engaged had a serious breakdown and changed her facebook photo to a photo of him and her and even sent him a photo of herself in a bathing suit telling him she loves him and wants to marry him and told her aide at the adult center she goes to that he told her he loves her to, he has always handled being around her in a very gentleman way. my parents had him block her on all social media and he rarely comes to my parents house due to her behavior. My mom wants me to have her in my wedding party but she’s refusing to wear the dress i’ve picked out and tried to pick a white one like mine and threw a tantrum when i told her no. I’m trying not to be an a**hole but i’ve had my fill of it and i don’t want my wedding overshadowed by my sister trying to hover all over my finance and act out, i understand she can’t help certain things but i don’t want her in my wedding party and at this moment i don’t even want her at the wedding at all. My mom and dad are saying im being unreasonable and horrible to my only sister and that she’ll act right at the wedding but she hasn’t shown me she can handle herself around him what so ever.