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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/breastmilksoaps on 2024-01-22 23:32:55+00:00.
I ordered a dress and high heels but never wore it in front of him as in my culture is consider bad luck. I was very excited looking at dresses, obviously not the $10,000 ones but $150-300 ones. We already have a baby and live together. I am a SAHM and he’s a senior engineer yet when I mentioned I wanted to buy a dress for our baby so she could also wear a dress, he said is not necessary. That we could wear whatever we have in our closet. I know he already pays for everything but I thought it was a special occasion and I was buying this with money I already had in my account. We are foreigners in the country we live in so only the witnesses arrived and the civil wedding lasted 10 minutes max. Instead of making me happy, I cried as soon as we arrived back to the apartment. He told me he didn’t know it meant so much to me and that I should’ve insisted. Well, I didn’t do that so now I wonder if I was in the wrong?