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Am I the Asshole?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/GuessNo1626 on 2024-01-23 03:55:47+00:00.


I have the login to my boyfriends instagram to post pictures I take for him from my phone. We were watching videos together and I get a notification that his ex liked his picture. I panicked and quickly deleted the notification and removed her like. I asked him to get me a glass of water then hid his phone somewhere in the sheets in case she planned on interacting further anytime soon. I reacted so strongly because I was afraid she had bad intentions seeing as his page is filled with things relating to me. Now I feel ashamed like I should've just let things run their course and let him act on his own in response to such a small thing if he even cared about it at all.

Edit: I'd like to add that I dont at all suspect him of cheating nor was it why I removed everything. He's the best person I've met and I let my insecurity shut away the "potential conflict" of the awkward situation when it wasnt mine to begin with.

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