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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Less of equality and more of having respect, all things being equal respect is what holds family relationships together, if you are (as a son) constantly rude or disrespectful to your mom and dad don't expect to be treat as an equal. (Because you're not their equal. Who pays the bills? Who keeps up to the house?)
If all family members have respect for each other, equality can be reached.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

And that goes both ways. If parents do not treat their children with respect, they should not expect to receive respect in return.

[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The equality that everybody earns. There is always some more equal than others.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

who decides who has earned what?

[โ€“] [email protected] -3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Don't strive for equality, strive for your goals. If your goals are an abstract idea you're kinda weird dude

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

This sounds like corporate motivational fluff lol. The kind of stuff you see posted on a staff room wall and no one knows what it means.

[โ€“] [email protected] -5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

total equality. children deserve the same rights as adults. parents should guide, not exercise dictatorial control. a parent that doesn't respect the rights and autonomy of their child does not deserve to be a parent.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

"Children deserve the same rights as adults" "Keep out reach and sight of children" because a child of 10 years doesn't understand that meds are not sweets and bleach is not juice. This is parallel to a parent guiding a child to adulthood. Children are not adults so cannot be treat the same. "Not exercise dictatorial control" is common sense parenting, though many parents fail at it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

i'm glad we agree!