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The original was posted on /r/inceltear by /u/Mrs_Night_XD on 2024-11-03 18:38:59+00:00.
I’m not sure if this is the right subreddit to post to, if you’d like me to redirect my post I’d be happy to.
As the title says I grew up with incels both irl and online, for reference I’m a girl go by any prns idc, 16 so my experience might be kinda shitty.
I’ve gotten to know incels in and out growing up: how they think and act down to why they‘re so hateful.
It really took a mental toll on me especially when I was younger hearing many incels talk about how subhuman women were and how disgusting we are for depriving them of basic human dignity (ie: sex, romantic relationships, ect..)
I felt really terrible hearing that stuff at a young age since frankly I wasn’t interested in any of that and wanted to be a regular kid who doesn’t have to worry about pleasing all the men (incels mostly) in her life by boosting their ego.
It ruined my first few relationships tbh giving incels a chance (though I couldn’t really tell they were since I was young and naive) it was terrible they’d make me feel like shit for not having sex with them/ not advancing their flirting or whatever making me feel useless because I didn’t want to do anything gross with them as I didn’t feel comfortable/ safe with the situations they were putting me in.
unironically when i was younger incels would fill my emails/ any message I put out into the world with fucking rape threats which ummm you know does not do well on the mental side. I will not reveal much but when I was like 13 I went on tv for a national award thing in a small country and somehow some people found my mailing address (I think the tv show provided one I can’t remember) and guess what the first letter I so excitedly opened was. a fucking rape fantasy.
writing thisto any ’incel’ or straight up loser who degrades women and labels them subhuman for not sleeping with them/ not wanting to be with them /gen just stop. It really makes you look like a clown no one owes you anything just because you have a dick and they certainly don’t need to give you anything if you’re being a little shit.