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[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm usually pretty gutter brained, but this one took me a second.

Honestly I think unless someone is gay thee generals public are going to just read it as MAMABEAR.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm not gay, but who hasn't had the occasional gay thoughts ya know? Haha

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

True. Pretty used to considering all gender and sexuality as spectra, where labels can feel arbitrary. But if someone thinks of it as gay, I accept the compliment.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

I could see myself reading it either way depending on the layout. At least in my state, license plates have a space between the first 3 letters and the last four, so "M4M" would look a lot more like "M4F" and "F4M", which also seem commonly used, so its not like the notation is unique to gay people. And "bear" and "twink" are both pretty commonly understood.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Aren't you a (midnight) wolf? This is confusing

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I'm a wolf that indulges in sweets and general over-eating... often. Chubby wolves can be bears, too :P

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

A bear in wolf's clothing?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

male for male for bear dating/hookups.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Two dudes spit roasting a twink?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

M 4 M 4 Bear

Male 4 Male 4 Bear

Basically it's just saying two dudes wanna fuck another hairy dude in Craigslist speak