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Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

Mine would be :

"Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

How about you?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"Trust no one - not even yourself"

My dad told me this while going through a divorce. He was also going through a criminal trial due to his deviance.

Its one thing that stuck with me and I wish it didn't.

Another one is from Lenin: " 'There Are Decades Where Nothing Happens' and 'Weeks Where Decades Happen' "

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The Lenin one has been on my mind for like a year now. We're coming up on the anniversary of the February revolution and I'm hoping that as things get worse we'll see the point where we have had enough.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Plenty of big flash points at current. I think we are seeing capitalism in disrepair, similar to 1920 Europe, world powers are rebalancing and competing for the now very limited resources. The working class are taking the brunt of the hardship and seek real change, and when trump can't make good on those promises we will see a real struggle.

Good luck out there comrade.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Dad told me when I was young to "learn to drink your coffee black and cold and you'll never be disappointed."

I don't think he was just talking about coffee.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

No matter how many books , videos you see , you cannot learn how to swim without entering the pool.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Life's tough for everyone

-Grandpa

[–] BeigeAgenda 7 points 2 months ago

A evergreen quote:

Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (6 children)

"Don't follow people - follow ideas" which seems more relevant today than ever before it seems.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"Nobody will take care of you if you don't take care of yourself"

Apply this to pushing back on contracts, double checking what you're asked to do, and putting yourself first, and you'll get a lot more respect in my experience. If you primarily put others first, your self will feel neglected. It doesn't mean you should not care for others, but that your highest priority should be yourself, and then others.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hitchens on the death of Jerry Falwell: "If they gave his corpse an enema, they could bury him in a matchbox."

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

“It only ever ends once, everything before that is just progress” -Jacob from lost lol

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Perhaps today is a good day to die. Prepare for ramming speed!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"Like they should have stopped Hitler at Munich, they should never let him get away with that, they was just asking for bad trouble." Peter Clemenza, The Godfather

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Rewatched that recently. I was really surprised how dark it sometimes gets for a kids' show. It still holds up really well!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"be someones angel"

quote from this little video that really stuck with me, as silly as it might sound

https://youtu.be/Ib2bt28in1c

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

"Someone once said that love is the best medicine. He was wrong, though; its crack." Source Unknown

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

"republicans are pussies" - me. thanks

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

We have liberated Europe from fascism, but they will never forgive us for it

  • Marshal Georgy Zhukov
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Wen in dbt breath deep

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The worst decisions make the best stories. - Unknown

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

It’s always darkest before the dawn.

How I interpret it is that when things get bad, and reach a new level of bad, that could be just what is needed for the pendulum to swing the other way, and swing extra hard.

Kind of like a Great Depression giving labour laws kind of a thing.

Gives me hope.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

You can't leave the party if you can't find the door. Randall Jacobs, aka Uncle Bunky

obituary, worth reading

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

"Everything you want in life has teeth", by the writer Jonathan Carroll. I believe it means that everything you pursue will hurt you in some way.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

It’s a poem by Stephen Crane, but so short I’m often reminded of it in full:

A man said to the universe:

”Sir, I exist!”

“However,” replied the universe,

“The fact has not created in me

A sense of obligation.”

It sounds nihilistic, but it’s somehow calming whenever I start to feel like I’ve been wronged or I’m owed a break of some sort.

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