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Many times when talking to people i have a feeling that they can't understand me ,also often i have many ideas and thoughts that everyone says "are you stupid?" or "man you just talk shit".

Do you guys have a similar feeling or i'm somekind of alien?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 children)

Give us a sample :p

But yeah, sometimes some introspective can help to figure out if maybe you are indeed talking shit mostly ;)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 years ago (3 children)

For instance, once i have concluded that "People always say that i don't owe anything, but my feelings are mine then i have something"

But after that "I have feelings, if they are mine, it's possible to sell them? How much do they cost? Actually, what is' selling feelings'? Does it have any physical meaning?"

Stuff like that

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 years ago

Looks like you would enjoy reading sΓ΄me philisophy and logic.

Sometime i expΓ©rience what you wrote, usually it means my thoughts are not articulate enough to be shared with the world.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 years ago

That's neither crazy nor stupid, but it does seem those are more like inner thoughts and most people don't share them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 years ago

many people don't like others who always talk deep philosophical nonsense. Maybe your words are too big and you talk to the wrong people about the wrong things.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 years ago

Welcome to the club!

It doesn't matter if we are all crazy together <3

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 years ago

Don't worry, it's called anxiety. There are many people like you, me, and many other around the globe! Β―_(ツ)_/Β―

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 years ago

You could be neurodivergent in some way, which would lead to emotions or other internal experiences simply not shared by most people.

Or have a differing background.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 years ago

You might have vastly differing presuppositions. Try getting to know people's worldview and general life context before you go on some diatribe that they have no context for. People often don't have the will, nor the mental means to comprehend information outside of their binding paradigm.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 years ago

It might be imposter syndrome '_'

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 years ago (1 children)

What ideas are we talking about here?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 years ago

Most of them are reflexions i have when in free time.

Those are not stupid questions like "Why are horses animals?"

Usually i start from an affirmation and therefore i'm going diving deeply into it until there's no more subject to link from the first affirmation.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 3 years ago (2 children)

Konichiwa, mirai Suzuha Amane desu!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 years ago