This is pretty much where I'm at.
The Synology gives a good balance of shit just works and the ability to tinker.
The built in software is rock solid and everything just works. Then with docker and vm support, you can tinker and self host to your hearts desire.
With that said, it does come at a price.
I've heard that steaming video is against ToS for tunnels, but I've not been able to confirm this.
But man, cloudflare tunnels are so cool. They are game changer if your behind a cgNAT or can't port forward for some reason. And they are even useful if you can port forward. Cloudflare cacheing and ddos protection, and your IP is not exposed.
Beautiful.