Turtle you don't have to answer this if you don't feel comfortable identity and sexuality questions are highly personal and anyone asking them can be denied answers to those questions.
And for people in these situations for real, you don't need to answer it either. You can tell that to such a person, and if they respond smugly or continue pressure you for an answer they're not a safe person.
(Nothing wrong with your post OP, just trying to give good advice to people in similar situations).
@PugEnjoyer
Alright, I am officially done talking to you. Please don't try and contact me again on another account.
@trans