egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics

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!egg_irl

!egg_irl is for widely relatable memes about questioning one's gender or being an egg (a trans person in denial) as well as other eggy topics.

If you are looking for a place to discuss something specific to you or especially if you need help or are in crisis, we have communities and resources that can support you linked at the bottom of this sidebar.

General Rules:

  1. No bigotry.

  2. No spam, bots, or vote farming.

Rules on Content:

  1. No reposts.

  2. No personal-life posts, bingo cards, quizzes, selfies, "trans/not trans" lists, picrew, or non-memes.

  3. No visible names or usernames.

  4. Do not post or link to pornography.

Rules on Post Titles and Tags:

  1. Posts must be titled "egg_irl". An emoji or two is OK, but they have to be between "egg" and "irl".

  2. Posts that assume the viewer's gender and/or contain potentially triggering content must be spoilered and tagged at the beginning of the post title. Example content-warning tags that you can copy include the following:

    • [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transmasc]
    • [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]
    • [CW: Assumes Viewer is Nonbinary]
    • [CW: Transphobia]
    • [CW: Violence]
    • [CW: Weapons/Firearms]
    • [CW: Disturbing Imagery]
  3. You may optionally include other tags, such as:

    • [Transmasc Meme]
    • [Transfem Meme]
    • [Nonbinary Meme]
    • [Gender-Nonspecific Meme]

Rules on Post Text:

  1. If possible, include an image description for accessibility.

  2. Add sources for art.

Rules on Comments

  1. If a post is tagged with a specific gender identity, keep the conversation centered on that identity.

  2. You must follow the Egg Prime Directive. You may not push or coerce people into identifying or not identifying a certain way. You must respect them as the gender they claim to identify as. In addition it is extremely in poor taste to make assumptions about other people's identities based on external factors, we understand it cannot be helped but it is best not to as it can affect the way you treat others in noticeable ways.

Recommendations:

We strongly encourage you to include your pronouns in your account bio so that others know how to refer to you without misgendering you. If you're questioning or unsure of your pronouns, that's totally cool—just say so.

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Hey everyone.

I've been a little swamped in my personal life lately, and when I checked in this week it I've seen a few things that worry me.

Some of you may know that this community is one of the ones that replaced an old subreddit after the api stuff. There were some rules there that aren't so explicit here in our rules. I'll be working on rewriting the rules in our sidebar soon, but I want to make a few rules clear:

  1. This community exists to support people questioning their gender. Be kind and respectful if you're going to comment. I've seen some mean, hurtful, or angry comments posted here in the last little bit. Don't bring that energy here, a lot of people come here to get away from hurtfulness. We will remove comments and dm you privately.
  2. IT IS NEVER OKAY TO CRACK SOMEONE ELSE'S EGG. Many of you have likely seen the post that inspired this rule clarification and this whole post. I won't link it here, but this isn't just an egg irl rule. genderdysphoria.fyi calls it "The Egg Prime Directive". People need to find and define their own journey. We can tell our own stories, but we cannot dictate the stories of others. This is obviously a zero-tolerance rule, and is definitely ban-worthy. Absolutely not allowed here.
  3. Do not invalidate other people's experiences. I've seen this in at least one post, something along the lines of "i don't think this necessarily means anything about gender". Here's i'd like to refer to the rule #1 of [email protected]: (Rule 1). Basically the entirety of this post applies; there are some aspects of questioning your gender that may seem mundane to an outsider. This does not mean that the person who posted this experiences it in the same way as you. And, for some of us, things that felt mundane to us before too took on a whole new and deeper meaning as we found our way on our journeys.
  4. We still have a title rule. Please follow it. This is a tradition of egg irl from the reddit days. We could at some point reconsider this rule, but I still believe it is a good one as I summarized in a post here. This one I'm more lenient on. If you break it, I will post in your thread and politely ask you to edit your title, and either forcibly rename it or just remove it only if the author doesn't fix it. In the future, I would like to even automate this part with a bot.

As I said, I will be working on a more official stickied rules post, and updating our sidebar rules to reflect as well, but I felt it important to post these for now. I owe understanding of myself to the original egg irl and I want this to be similarly helpful for other eggs.

All of that said, I'd also like some mod help here. A few things I'd want from potential mods:

  1. you have a local lemmy.blahaj.zone account.
  2. under that account you have a history of posting here / other lgbtq+ communities positively
  3. that if you become a mod, you also make sure to get set up with matrix so you can be in the blahaj.zone matrix's mod chat channel along with me.
  4. i'd also prefer cracked eggs only; the mods here should consider themselves protective roosters & mother hens, nurturing and guarding our precious lil eggs <3

Please post here if you'd like to be considered, I will be choosing a couple of mods carefully.

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egg💘irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

Crack your rival :3

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Egg😰irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

When you start the decade as cishets, only to end it as transgays

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egg🧞irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

my cis friend helping me shop for gender-affirming care for the first time: a scene from the cartoon movie "Aladdin" where Genie helps Aladdin pick out a sultan outfit

I've never made a meme about my masc buddies so hopefully this came out ok

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Egg👩‍🏫irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

For those harsh moments of lucidity that break through the armor and pierce your heart.

For me, the cute moments of playful experimentation couldn't quite penetrate my denial, but they did weaken it enough for the strong hits to make it through. I would quickly try to block and repair as best I could, but the structure was compromised and couldn't hold like before. All these hits came from myself; from actually considering that I could be trans

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a timeline of a cartoon "boy" progressively becoming more and more feminine. as the timeline progresses the caption changes from "gifted kid" to "burnout" to "trans girl with a praise kink"

this hits a bit too close to home...

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egg🍓irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

Don't ask me how many deaths my main save file has

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Egg:.|:;irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

My favorite loss meme so far!

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egg💊🎅irl (discuss.online)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

Christmas without HRT is just Cis-mas

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egg (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 
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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

Outside:

Combat boots and black pants.

Inside:

Pink and white striped programming socks (thigh highs)

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Description: The picture shows an female presenting anime character in front of a trans pride flag in the background. She is holding up a sign that says: "You don't need a big list of reasons and past signs to be a valid trans person, just feeling better as a different gender than your birth one is enough <3"

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

The first time you feel included with the girls 💅

Source: Danshi Kokoseidakedo Gyaru ni TS Shimashita aka. I'm a High School Boy, but I Got Gender-Swapped into a Gyaru

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egg 🪖 irl (discuss.online)
submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

Some things have a silver lining I guess.

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egg_irl (ttrpg.network)
submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 
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Description: An upset anime girl. A text at the top says: "I'm so jealous of trans people." A text at the bottom says: "Why do I have to stay my gender, but they get to be another gender?"

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Where are you rn fellow girls?

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egg_irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 
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egg🤖irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 
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egg🧪irl (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

The biggest egg in anime/manga history: Mahiro from ONIMAI: I'm Now Your Sister! aka Onii-chan wa Oshimai! which means Big Bro is Done For!

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egg🐣irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 

The hatching.

There were two things I needed to hear:

  • Anyone can just be trans. It's up to you.
  • Maybe you do have dysphoria, maybe you are trans, and you just haven't realized it yet.
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Egg🃏irl (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
 
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