I still think we are saying the same thing.
"Let's not put labels on anything, let's just choose to not have any other partners while we are sleeping together. If one us changes our mind about that, they should be up front with the other person about it."
"Let's be exclusive. If one us changes our mind about that, they should be up front with the other person about it."
Am I missing something? Is "exclusive" used for a different definition now?

How about a combination of the two?
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