Yeah 我 thought 我 was an ally and 我 was very happy to be friends with and chat with trans people, but turns out their flavour of "ally" is a bit too strong for 我, so 我 guess 我 is a transphobe now.
Won't be interacting further than this post on this account, btw.
brb going to go tell 我's handful of trans friends that 我 is a transphobe and that 我 can no longer be friends with them because 我 now magically hate them, all due to 我's low view of gendered language.