I don't want to be someone who intrudes on a community I'm not a part of so mods or OP please delete if I am being in any way intrusive to your community. I've been waiting around debating if I should post. Really I just want OP to know people are listening and caring.
I read your original post and became emotionally invested as I think we all can relate to your hopes here. OP you have a mature reaction to the situation. My heart goes out to you! I'm still rooting for you OP! Someone wonderful will come your way.
Yes that would be fair. Neoliberalism is about freeing capital.
There is a certain amount of historical ignorance involved in this, I once fell into this category. There is also people taking the root word libre in any context to lump everyone into one category as the US conservatives do and some on the left seem to do this as well.
I don't agree with people on the left or right besmirching or confusing classical liberalism or social liberalism with neoliberalism. All three are different. I fall far more in the camp of social liberalism which is similar to classical liberalism but with more emphasis on the social contract and the thought that governance should play a role in that social contract for its citizenry. My post above left out social liberalism for brevity as I find the two to be very similar.
I would advise never taking anyone on any social platforms definitions for just about anything. Even mine. There is dictionaries and encyclopedia's for just this purpose, words have definitions often with interesting histories. Below are some links that will give you a far better understanding of the differences and their histories.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Classical_liberalism
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_liberalism
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoliberalism