Idk man. Sounds like you're projecting quite a lot lol.
I for one will continue the tried and true act of comradery amongst my fellow peers and continue to recognize that we live in a society with many facets of living. You can do whatever you want, but I like the idea of spontaneously sparking up conversations with strangers and neighbours and friends and family. It might be the worst thing ever to you, but using the phone to call people in the real world is no big deal lol.
And my perspective is that if you're going to get pissed off about things like this then you should probably have a long hard look at yourself in the mirror lol.
Also in my experience it's not that hard to play the field and figure out when people you are talking to want to talk or want to just get straight to the point. ๐คท๐ป