ambitiousslab

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[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 2 points 5 days ago

New addition to the Monty Hall solution: if you just spent 25 minutes walking up a steep hill, and find yourself inside a giant Buddha, make sure to stick with your existing door!

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 4 points 1 week ago

For me, it's more that he very confidently and bald-faced lied about saying that he immediately apologised.

I know all politicians lie. But it's still unacceptable and we should keep calling it out when it happens.

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 36 points 1 week ago (32 children)

Will you be allowed to lie about the age? If yes, then it's a pointless law. If no, then whoever is checking needs to have more control over your device than you do, DRM style. That's gives them an entry point through which they can put whatever they want without you being able to control it.

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 30 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

My partner, dad's partner, and so many colleagues at my job, wasted so many weeks cramming for this stupid, irrelevant test. If you add up all the people who have to take this, how many person hours have we wasted as a society, all to be forgotten anyway, because it's useless information.

We really need to get rid of this test, or at a minimum strip it down and make it about how to vote and access public services. But even then, if someone wants to learn that, they will of their own accord and in their own time anyway.

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

67% for me, looks like I'm getting kicked out

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I'm quite crazy:

  • Marginalia with the no JavaScript filter, then with that filter turned off
    • Good for finding technical stuff, and sometimes recipes! I often find cool blogs this way.
  • SearxNG via farside.link
    • Unfortunately (and understandably) many of these sites use Anubis now, so I have to turn on JavaScript, and thanks to Google's ratelimits the results are either fantastic or not helpful at all
    • But, the public instances can work, so I try with 3 instances before moving on

Depending on the thing I'm searching for, I have search shortcuts set up. These shortcuts are really handy. It seems much easier to get good results on dedicated search engines for each task, than finding another general purpose search engine that's as good:

  • Wikipedia, Wiktionary and Wikidata
  • Some other wikis
  • Lemmy (of course!)
  • Peertube and podcast indexes
  • Websites of grocery shops near me

Finally, if all else has failed, I use Google (which still unfortunately happens at least a couple of times per day 🙁). Although, reading the posts now, I should switch this stage to DuckDuckGo instead.

I'd quite like to set up my own instance of SearxNG + YaCy at some point. It'd be nice to configure SearxNG to basically do all of these steps at once that I'm doing manually, prioritise my YaCy index, but use other engines to fill in the gaps, and then gradually fill in the gaps in my YaCy index.

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 1 points 3 weeks ago

This song makes me stressed, but in a good way :D

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 43 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Personally, I donate less to more projects. But, if you don't have a strong opinion of what to donate to, you can get the best of both worlds by donating to NLnet.

They fund open source projects up and down the stack, from open source CPUs all the way up to applications like Lemmy, and everything in between. Some are quite speculative and others are tangible improvements to existing projects.

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 4 points 3 weeks ago

I used Language Transfer and Michel Thomas' courses when starting to learn Italian and found them really helpful in getting a foothold into the language.

The Michel Thomas course was longer and went in more depth, but I preferred the vibe of language transfer. The Michel Thomas course seemed to be aimed at people looking to cheat on their wife on a business trip, because a lot of the conversation was about inviting women to get a drink :( Despite that, it was still useful.

Unlike the language apps, these courses did a good job of getting me to think in real-time. Despite only being able to express and understand basic things, they gave me confidence to try and say things. Even without much vocab, I was able to express myself in a simple way: "I like that red thing over there", and I was able to pick up new words with "what does this part mean?" or "can you repeat?" etc. So far, it's the best method I've found to bootstrap enough of the language to start talking and picking up the rest by osmosis.

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

For those not familiar with the author, he is a Lib Dem life peer, and was president of the Lib Dems until 3 months ago.

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 11 points 1 month ago (16 children)

He added that the government would provide an extra £63m to the 21 areas affected.

This issue has trundled on for so long, the concern being cost on local government, and then it turns out it can be sorted out overnight with just £63m.

If you ran on a pledge to clean up politics, and you're up against Reform saying "they're all the same and all as bad as each other", then it should be obvious that delaying elections because you're scared about the results is not a good look.

 

A well-written post. Some highlights focused on the network angle of things:

The old neighbourhood was not a collection of individuals who happened to live near each other; it was a living organism with its own immune system and its own way of metabolising change. When Moses bulldozed it, he killed a community and scattered the remains.

Jacobs understood that the value of a community isn't in the people as discrete units. The value is in the specific, unreproducible web of relationships between them. You can move every single resident of a street to the same new street in the same new suburb and you will not get the same community, because community is a function of time and ten thousand microtransactions of reciprocity that nobody tracks and nobody can mandate.

What Dunbar's model implies about community is underappreciated. If a community is a network of overlapping Dunbar layers, then each member's experience of the community is unique, shaped by where they sit in the web. There is no "the community" in any objective sense. There are as many communities as there are members, each one a different cross-section of the same social graph, and this means that when you lose members, you lose entire subjective communites that existed literally nowhere else.

 

I subscribe to Nebula basically exclusively for Jet Lag. I'd quite like a space for memes, clips, or discussions that are not tied to specific recent episodes.

Rule #1 is well observed, and I want to respect that, especially if there is general support for it. So, the safest option appears to be to create a new community for this, linking here for the episode discussions.

However, I also want to avoid splitting communities unnecessarily. I tend to agree with the fedigrow philosophy of posting to more general communities when possible.

What do you think?

 

I'm a people pleaser. I have anxiety and depression thanks to some trauma. I've been in therapy for a little over a year.

Objectively, I'm doing ok at work. I have always met expectations. However, it takes a lot out of me. I always try to meet people's expectations because disappointing people feels unbearable. Because of the ability to break things, I often shirk responsibility and make myself unreliable in subtle ways

My experience in work has a big impact on my wellbeing outside. Due to forcing my way through the anxiety, I feel very tired and often have to rest (lying down in the dark, not interacting with anyone) for several hours on evenings and weekends.

At the moment, I am lying in bed most of the day and having 2-3 panic attacks per day (by panic attack, I mean that my heart starts beating really strongly and quickly, and my breathing feels like it's running away from me).

I think my difficulties are almost certainly related to the trauma. I have a lot of trepidation around, and fawn a lot with the colleagues that set me tasks, even though I can see objectively that I am not in any danger.

I have been trying to set more boundaries, be more upfront and stop this fawning. I am making some (slow) progress, but I still have a real lack of energy outside of work, and spend a lot of time anxious about the next working day. It's impacting my life a great deal.

Does anyone have any similar experiences, or ideas of how to stop these situations from having such a big effect on the rest of my life?

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