qwestjest78

joined 1 year ago
[–] qwestjest78 32 points 2 weeks ago

Forget her feelings. Make it clear there is no relationship. Otherwise they will hold onto hope and could try to undermine your marriage.

You can't prioritze other people's feelings. Almost always others wont prioritze yours.

[–] qwestjest78 41 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm 30 and my body feels better than when I was 20. Looking after myself alot better now.

[–] qwestjest78 8 points 2 weeks ago

Glad I left Spotify

[–] qwestjest78 3 points 2 weeks ago

Retro Bowl is good. Pay to unlock, but it is one time payment and the game is solid

[–] qwestjest78 35 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Westworld comes to mind for me

[–] qwestjest78 38 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I had this recently. My parents wanted me to make a full hour round trip drive across town to pick them up in the middle of the night so they could save $50 on a taxi. I said, "No," as I have kids to look after now, and my mom launched into how I'm not family first anymore and after all the things she did for me as a kid, she can't depend on me to pick her up.

I stuck to my guns though. They conned my brother with the same story, but I set a boundary.

[–] qwestjest78 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I don't have high hopes for this movie.

[–] qwestjest78 29 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

You can say it is Calgary. It is a massive problem. There was a 17 year old on a skateboard who was recently hit and killed by a 79 year old lady. This is at least the third time in less than a year that someone has been hit in a crosswalk by an older woman. One of the cases someone was hit by two older women back to back and killed. I wish I was joking, but that actually happened.

I walk in Calgary to work every day and I can confirm that it is dangerous. My walk is only 15 mins, but I had so many close calls that I had to buy a construction vest and a headlamp for when I am walking at night. Some people will yell at me when my headlamp shines on them, but at least they see me and stop.

We need better lighting, we need more frequent reviews of peoples licenses, (Normally people get a license when they are 17 and they are never reviewed again), we need harsher punishments for people who drive dangerously (if you hit someone in a crosswalk, it should be a significant license suspension, 6 months to 1 year), and we need more investment in protected bike lanes and pedestrian over/underpasses so you don't need to always risk getting hit to just cross the street. Too many people in Calgary are entilted drivers and act like they have a right to drive as fast as they want.

More people will die and I could very well still be one of them despite the precautions I take. I would also argue that 1 million won't even scratch the surface of addressing how widespread of a problem this is in the city. That one guy who was hit and killed by the two older ladies and died was at a crosswalk that is unlit and was frequently complained about for being unsafe, but the city said it was too expensive to put in a light system. People have still been hit in lit crosswalks, but the fact that the city has a price where they won't prioritize pedestrians lives is apparant.

[–] qwestjest78 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I think it's probably more trouble than it is worth

[–] qwestjest78 1 points 3 weeks ago

God, I hope they strike soon

[–] qwestjest78 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, I'm not really feeling this.

[–] qwestjest78 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)
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