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I definitely think it should be an inclusive, not exclusive space
blahaj.zone is a great one I've found. Extremely inclusive, brooks absolutely no bullshit from bad faith actors.
Is also very very queer tho JSYK
I don't think we can equate "queer space" with "women's space".
I didn't.
Well I would definitely put blahaj down as a queer-focused space rather than a women-focused space. It's inclusive, women are welcome, but the community there is very much about queer issues.
Key word: you.
k.
That could be our new Lemmy slogan.
Except the Drag person, obvious troll they keep around.
People are fucking weird about drag.
Honestly there are far more worthy things to get pissed about this day and age, open a window
I just blocked them and moved on. It’s just insane it took so long for the admins to finally ban them.
Don't call them a troll or Ada will ban you like she did me and half of 196
Good
Dragonfucker isn't a gender, you enabling trolls makes LGBTQ spaces worse for people with real gender identities that experience real discrimination in the real world.
I bet you feel good when the people you hate get silenced though, like a drug addict chasing dopamine.
You don't get to decide what is and what isn't a real identity :) if that makes you mad, the ban was justified just for that,
Do you identify as a troll like dragonfucker?
Is that why making me mad is so important to you? :3
Does the troll drug addict want their squirt of dopamine?
Is that it? People disagreeing with you must be trolls? Does imagening that make it easier?
People who want to try to invalidate and mock gender identities are trolls.
Nobody's gender is realistically "dragonfucker" or "attack helicopter".
And you like the little squirt of dopamine you get for making the people they attack angry.
You're not cute or clever for stepping around the rhetoric so you don't get banned.
It's maybe the most impotent victim fantasy of a troll I've seen in a long time, and i think that's what bothers me about it.
Blocked
Like I said, you don't get to decide what isn't a real identity. That's some TERF shit.
Either can describe a bar that throws out Nazis or a Nazi bar, depending on perspective.
now you're just being dickish.
Nah I'm demanding clarity. A clear question "Do you mean excluding TERFs or excluding women" and the answer is "I want to be inclusive". It may not be meant as such, and I'm definitely not implying that it was, but that's exactly how a TERF would evade questioning.
A clear "Fuck TERFs" would have provided plenty of clarity, and been much shorter. Also, it would have said "Fuck TERFs".
Idk man "exclusionary" is literally part of terf I don't think there's much ambiguity there. Fuck terfs though.
This is transmisogynistic and misogynoir as well as plain old misogyny. Don't ask me to explain. Just don't do it.
They're also complaining about "women being excluded from women's spaces by agents of the patriarchy posing as women". They're also not necessarily using "TERF" as a label. They're using typical fascist-style "words mean whatever we want them to mean in the moment" type of stuff, hiding clear-cut positions behind pretend nuance, hence why I favour clarity.
I regret my part in this recto-cranial inversion of a conversation