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‘There were no warning signs’: what happens when your partner falls into the ‘manosphere’? (www.theguardian.com)
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cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/36418433

With surveys reporting that an increasing number of young men are subscribing to these beliefs, the number of women finding that their partners share the misogynistic views espoused by the likes of Andrew Tate is also on the rise. Research from anti-fascism organisation Hope Not Hate, which polled about 2,000 people across the UK aged 16 to 24, discovered that 41% of young men support Tate versus just 12% of young women.

“Numbers are growing, with wives worried about their husbands and partners becoming radicalised,” says Nigel Bromage, a reformed neo-Nazi who is now the director of Exit Hate Trust, a charity that helps people who want to leave the far right.

“Wives or partners become really worried about the impact on their family, especially those with young children, as they fear they will be influenced by extremism and racism.”

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Yeah, I read this first thing in the morning and replied before even checking what community it is. Probably should've deleted this but also, maybe it's a good discussion to have around here.

I know that you're right but it just feels hopeless. You say that I should have empathy but honestly what I worry about the most is that the people we're talking about here have no empathy of their own. Because I can't help but wonder, don't these kids have mothers and sisters that they look at and at least feel a little bit bad about the circles they spend time in and the ideology they believe in? It's a strange mix of disgust and despair that I feel about this. Because I feel like trying to appeal to the good nature of mother's sons that listen to rapists in the first place is a lost cause.

But I could just be bitter. And facing my own gender wars internally and projecting that. I've actually been trying to stay away from these conversations because I'm not sure if I can be anything but angry at this point.