WomensStuff

Well to be the devil's advocate here...

Everyone and everything gets sexualized and not you not anybody can demand what goes on in other people's heads. You can sexualize me all you want and there is nothing I can do about that.

On the porn level, well, yeah... People make porn with trans actors, sometimes it's aimed at straight people and yes, it objectifies trans people, but then again. ALL porn objectifies everything, it's kind of the point. Porn is fantasy, escapism. It's really not that different from an action movie.

Rambo slaughters hundreds of people, and it's okay because it's a movie, a fantasy. All the actors involved are still alive and well. The same goes for the trans (or asexual) actors in porn videos. I think it's important to remember that this is just all fantasy and if you don't like it, please by all means, don't watch it. However, I think it's not right that you start demanding that "straight" men cannot watch trans porn if they want to. Unfortunately you don't get to decide what runs around in my head, just as I don't get to decide what runs around in your hear or what turns you on.

I think we should all tone it down a little. Just because someone likes trans porn doesn't make them disgusting.

Yes, trans people can be fetishised, just like straight men can be. You never saw porn where a straight guy gets lured and and then "raped but he likes it" by another man? If it's not your thing, fine, it's not my thing either but if you do like it, by all means, watch it and enjoy it.

Once you're done, you're back in the real world and there your interactions are different because we all (well most of us) know the difference between fantasy and reality.

Just for the record: I'm sure loads of people (men, women, and trans alike) have interacted with me whilst playing some porn scenarios about me in their heads, objectifying the crap out of me. That. Is. Fine. I won't judge others for their fantasies and desires as long as they don't objectify me, and behave in the real world.