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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I found out about anxious preoccupied attachment and how it fits into some really upsetting, toxic behaviours I was catching myself in and which were upsetting me a lot, because I couldn’t understand what was happening. I’m now reading about it and its link to past trauma.

Understanding how it presents itself and why is my first step to overcome this!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

You've done really well identifying that wildflower, and you're right, that's the first step to changing it. You've put some research into it and you can sort it from there.