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I think this is the best advice. These kinds of social gatherings take the pressure off socializing, you’re there because of something else and socializing is a side-effect. That feels nice for all parties. Choose something that is close to a honby or interest of tours, that way you’ll be more likely to meet likeminded people. Good luck OP and remember, you’ve got years to do this, you dont build up a social life in one or two weeks.
Edited to add sports, they’re great in melting the ice. Board game nights if that’s your cup of tea. Fantasy sports leagues
So much this. You can make a new friend at any age or stage in life. My grandparents are on their 90s and they made friends with a couple who just moved into their village only a few weeks ago and now they going to the local cinema together once a week followed by an early dinner.
(Language) courses are also great for this. If you make friends, that's a bonus. Whatever happens you'll have learnt a skill.