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Men's responses to the "man or bear" question perfectly illustrate the point of the question but they just. Don't. Understand. That.
It's not necessarily that a woman is answering the question "man or bear?", it's that everyone in the conversation when she does so can answer "do you respect me or what I have to say at all?" and the answer from men is often a resounding "no!" A bear would just accept someone's answer as her answer and leave it at that.
Thank you for voicing the thoughts I was having such trouble putting into words