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Feeling very alone (kinda venty) (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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So for the most part I kinda been quite disconnected from most queer communities, I find it hard to feel like I belong as a trans person. I am just too different? idk y but my experiences seems so different to everyone else but I also lack any true support so that likely doesn't help.

This last week I was feeling abit better as I was gonna meet up with my family something I dont do often and this would be the first time since I hit some transition goals, so I felt pretty good about things.

But ofc things didnt work as plan, if anything they don't see me any different and was mostly ignored the whole time. I should of expected this as for the most part they been pretty passive about my whole deal.

This has hurt alot more than I thought it would and more than anything just tired of never being understood or having any friends or anyone to talk to.

I really wanted this to be the turning point for atleast my family like it would of been something but I guess I was too hopefully.

It's been 7 years and I am still there "son" I am done with them and I think just gonna drop them as much as I can.

But this leaves me very alone, i dont know how to handle this anymore. I'm sorry to post this here I don't have anywhere else to really be and I just don't want to be alone...

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

This makes me quite sad. I have two friends transitioning rn and they have partners and a somewhat supportive families (and the members who aren't they dropped a few years ago). But to feel like you are all alone is :(!

I'm terrible with making friends or anything social, really, I'm anxious af (terrible adolescent and teen years, so I distanced myself from all but a handful of close people). The ones I have I like very much, but I don't really understand the process of making new friends, others just sort of bring me into their circles and I'm like 'oh ok'. But if you want to chat about whatever, maybe play some games, you can pm me. This goes for anyone else reading this and feeling similar. I'm super awkward but if I can maybe make someone's day or be someone to just talk to, I'll break out of my shell and try to be supportive. I've been trying to push myself socially anyway, not be so scared of interacting with others, so I'd be mutually beneficial. Plus, yay friend maybe?

Regardless, I hope you find some people who support you. internet hug!