I have chronic pain and pain from a recent procedure. I have chosen a positive attitude despite these current struggles. This is a change for me. Also, I think we can have not necessarily good or bad days, but moments. If something doesn't go our way it's a bad moment, the whole day isn't bad.
this post was submitted on 04 Apr 2022
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Feel better soon please...and thank you for maintaining positivity through your struggles.
Thanks so much. It is appreciated.
I hope you feel better soon.
If something doesnβt go our way itβs a bad moment, the whole day isnβt bad.
I would say this is generally true, but it can also mean that when we have a good/bad moment, these moments tend to affect how we behave for the rest of the day. Furthermore, how we see the rest of the day. Therefore, bad moments can lead to a bad day as well as good moments can make us deliriously happy for the remainder of the day, which we would call a good day. If multiple moments occur, the feeling is just that stronger one way or the other.
Exactly! But we have to try and let go of the bad moments and not allow those to dictate the rest of our day.
I agree. I try to focus on the moments so I don't consider a day entirely bad like I used to.
I've been feeling sick since yesterday morning, almost as if a bee had stung me in the throat, so I don't feel that great today, but at least I'm feeling better than yesterday
Get better soon!
Crazy busy at work, but I'm doing great. Thanks for asking!
Well I just woke up. It's been alright. Slept early, for once.
My day started off fine...then I woke up.
I hope this is just a joke.
Hehe! I understand this!
ehhhhhhhh, is pretty okay
Sometimes that's good enough :)
Although lately I don't get out of bed with a great positive attitude, during the course of the day my mood improves.
I'm having a good day. It's sunny out, I like it.
Most of my days are stressful since my masters program is very disorganized, outside of that theyβre good I get to spend a lot of time with my partner since I donβt have a job currently.
Yes. I'm happy I got more energy than las week. Maybe I am sleeping better.