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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I’m curious, does anybody else sit down in the shower. (That’s right not a typo. Sitters, not shitters)

This started for me when I was younger, usually when I was nursing a gnarly hangover. The warm water beating down on me was a solace and sitting just made it feel all the more comforting. Though I’m sure it’s not the most hygienic.

Over the years, it's evolved into a ritual, now my preferred way to unwind and relax. So much so, I’m building a concrete bench seat in the shower, with a custom shower head above it, as part of our bathroom renovations. (Similar to the pic)

I'm curious if anyone else has a similar routine. Do you find it therapeutic too? Any particular reason why you started?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Lemmy needs a hide option. I am not a shower sitter but I do not want to downvote to get it off my feed. You guys will now live at the top of my feed out of respect for your life choices.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Thankyou for the honour. 🙏

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

People don't do this sometimes??? I enjoy doing this as often as possible. I started doing it when I had some headaches and didn't feel like bending backwards (tall guy problems in a small shower) so I would just sit and let the water flow over me like I was being blessed by the water gods of headache removal. Haven't looked back since, it's so damn soothing!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Since I was a kid. You’re the first person I’ve ever heard talk about it. I guess I always thought it was super weird so i never told anyone.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeh. I’m Shocked here tbh. I feel like I’ve found my people. I was always told it was super weird too!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

There are dozens of us!

Edit: Damn it, scrolled down and saw someone beat me to this. There are clearly too many of us.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Why can’t you both say it?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I used to straight up nap in the shower as a kid. My parents thought I was jerking off but I was legitimately just taking a power nap.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Dude. Same. I would sometimes make a little sleep mask out of a wash cloth.

I just let my parents think that. Somehow, yanking it seemed less weird.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Holy shit are we the same person?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah, I do it occasionally. Bad headache or hangover. That'll usually do the trick.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Exactly the same. Usually standing up, but if it's a really bad morning I sit down.

More often than not I also close the drain so it becomes a bath and suddenly I'm stewing in my own shame and regret.

[–] nomadwannabe 5 points 2 years ago

Yes. Often. I love it, it feels…. Safe? Same as you, started doing at as a part of the hangover ritual; now I do it a couple times a week. It’s relaxing. Head hanging down, warm water dripping down my nose. Comfy.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

The place I moved into recently has a seat built into the shower.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Jeez I read shower SHITTERS and came to laugh at all of the weirdos. Thankfully I don't have to write off humanity as early as usual this morning.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Give it time.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I had an ex-gf that would sit down for showers when possible, and sometimes fall asleep lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Me too haha

[–] nueonetwo 3 points 2 years ago

Generally only when I'm hungover.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Sometimes you just gotta sit, it’s relaxing, it’s not quite a full bath scenario but not quite a shower, a nice middle

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Yup, it's like meditation for me. Helps me unwind.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I haven’t done it in a while but when I did it was a way to relax and unwind a bit.

Now though I haven’t had the luxury of time to do so.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I recommend taking a moment to do it today ! Give yourself the pleasure.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

There are dozens of us! Dozens!

I just sit right on the bathroom floor. Don't even care. I'm the one who cleans that bathroom, I know that shits clean, yanno?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If I'm sitting in the shower I'm probably in a depression spiral

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

:(

Try it when your feeling good. ✌️💛

[–] jerkface 2 points 2 years ago

Sure, best way to cry in the shower is in a heap in the tub.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Only when I'm sick, really.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Yeah I shi- Oh shower sitters. Uh yeah I sit in the shower sometimes, when life is just hard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I‘m too fat and clumsy to comfortably sit down now, but before life fucked me this hard I definitely used to do that as well. Just really comfy somehow. Like sitting out in the rain, which I enjoy as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I used to. More of a kneeling kind of position though. No idea why I did it... Just did it once, must have liked it, did it the next day, and repeat.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Kneeling hey? That sounds painful!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I couldn't think of the word I was looking for when I wrote this. More of a crouch. IDK why I said kneel.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Best way to unwind. Best way to get over a headache or hangover. I like to go from as hot as I can handle down to as cold as I can handle & alternate for as long as I feel I need. Magic.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

It’s like the best combination of a shower and a bath! I also started when I was younger… I had to get up really early in the morning and the only way I could get myself out of bed was to lay down and basically sleep in the shower. It was soo relaxing but eventually woke me up enough for the day. I still do it sometimes when I really want to relax or am very tired.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Sometimes when everything gets too overwhelming I'll sit in the shower

It's relaxing but I lose track of time pretty easy and the amount of hot water I have is pretty limited

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It seems like it would be calming. Though I feel the tub gets a bit gross for this.

Any chair recommendations for tubs? What about shower heads that work best to not drown you?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Don’t know chairs. I just sit cross legged on the floor. Madly the shouter head backs me to the side, find a sweet spot. And all good.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I had a real nasty shower in the house I lived in as a kid. It changed the way I see showers. The thought of sitting down in one. Ehh, it sends shivers down my spine. But you do you. If you like it you like. Also, I first misread the title as shower shitters and, the first line of the description made me think you were going to talk about dropping a log down the drain pipe.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

That’s my next post.

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