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I can wear a dress to work and nobody criticizes me. I’d be really sad if I had to wear pants all the time, they’re just not as comfortable. Let’s normalize pretty dresses for dudes!

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 years ago (5 children)

We have kilts... And we look great in them.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And skirts. They are soooo comfy, but it's not socially acceptable to go outside in one.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 years ago

I wear my kilt all the time, most comfortable thing ever

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 years ago (7 children)

Men, let me introduce you to sarongs. My cousin was roommates with a Ukrainian guy and after he tried wearing it he basically got converted. He bought a dozen to be brought back to Ukraine. With the conflict going on I hope he's safe now.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 years ago

Getting my kilt ready as we speak…

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't know if I would wear a dress, but I'm all for making skirts gender neutral.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I agree. There should be a turn back to the robe-like garments that are used by everyone in certain cultures. It's comfy and it looks regal as fuck. And with the heat waves we've been getting we are gonna have to adapt to our environment where we can

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago

Agreed, 100%. I grew up in a hot area and worked in offices where long pants were the standard. I was always jealous that ladies could get all that ventilation and I was stuck with boiler pipes on my legs.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago

Technology in pants has gotten so good that jeans which used to be uncomfortable have now gotten thin, stretchy, and soft while still looking the same

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I don't think skirts are gender for me personally (cis man), but if it wouldn't draw any extra attention to me, I'd consider trying them.

Maya Kern's skirts have pockets that can fit a Nintendo Switch in them. Consider the pocket possibilities if they made "men's skirts" (or just reasonable pockets for everyone). Imagine... Being able to adjust how you're sitting without your remote car keys setting off your car alarm.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago

My grade school had a dress code, and one part of that dress code was that for the winter months, boys had to wear pants, not shorts. The girls could wear skirts on any day.

Well there was a heat wave and we asked multiple times to wear shorts and they told us no... so we collected as many skirts as we could and most of us came in athletic shorts with a skirt. Technically in dress code becaure girls were allowed shorts under their skirts. Rule was changed the next day.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Reminder that guys can wear Kilts if they want to

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Nobody's making me wear pants. I've worn garments similar to dresses and skirts and I'm not a fan at all.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Even shorts would be a great first step!

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago (5 children)

As a man I appreciate your concerns. However, in my country the problem is much larger on the women's side as female professionals are struggling for their rights to wear trousers in professional settings. The recent progress? The lawyers just got allowed to wear pants instead of skirts only.

Why the fuck is this something that must be permitted in the first place? My rights to wear a kilt can wait until women can wear pants.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago

All clothes should be accepted based on functionality and practicality regardless of gender.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

No need for dresses. Just make baggy cargo pants (and cargo shorts fo those of us who , unlike me, like shorts) fashionable and business code compliant.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Shorts are also comfy though.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Got it. Utilikilts for all!

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I just got talked to about wearing shorts by my manager. I told her I'd just wear a dress then. I haven't found one I like yet.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I tried to use this argument with a boss during the summer, when she told me shorts weren't "professional"... She didn't bite when I pointed out the variety of "professional" female vs male attire, and that no summer male alternative to pants exists. I pointed out the skirt she was wearing during that scorching day as an example.

But I worked primarily in the field and none of my Clients nor their care facilities cared, so joke's on her and I wore what I wanted anyway. Dressed in pants on days I went into the office or brought Clients to one of my (former) organization's facilities.

But I am totally okay with this trade-off given that men's clothes actually have pockets! I'll sweat my balls off in exchange for functional pockets any day..

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I'm a chemist, we're basically glued to our jeans regardless of gender. Yes, summer is hell for us.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago (6 children)

I'm a woman and I'm confused as to how you find dresses and skirts comfortable. They're a pain in the ass, uncomfortable, look terrible on most people i see in them and pants are way more comfy if you buy the right ones. And most offices are freezing cold year round anyway.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago

Tbf, regarding dresses, skirts and other gowns: Your legs never get pinched, you can just fold your legs up under you when sitting down, as a guy you can just lift it up to pee and don't risk getting your member stuck in the zipper, as a girl, if you have the proper underwear, you don't need to take of your pants, many long skirts actually come with pockets or you can mod pocket slits into them and wear historical pockets under them, you can have them in any length, some pants lengths are silly, skirts allow more air ciruclation, just wear them made of the weather appropriate material...

But honestly, as a guy who grew up doing late High Medieval Living History (about the time of Friedrich II of the HRE), dresses are frigging lit. Just pull it over, secure with your belt and pouch, put on your shoes, if it's cold get your cape. DONE. Go out there and look like the Anti-Christ, King of Jerusalem and "principum mundi maximus"

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

It already exists and is called a sarong. That is a traditional Sri Lankan dress for males that slowly went away after western colonization. Bonus fun fact: Arthur C. Clarke used to rock this style.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

We know it by a different name, but it's still going strong in India.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago

You had me at no pants.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I tried on my wife's skirt and walked around the house one day.

Easy, breezy, like A/C on my balls. Shit was kinda nice.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago

I quite like pants and am very uncomfortable in a dress, so I wouldn't want to give up pants for dresses.

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