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Sometimes you can tell you've messed up, but you're not actually sure why so you just have to keep going and hope they let you get away with whatever it was (fedia.io)
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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 12 points 3 weeks ago

Fwiw, if it's a casual situation, you can probably ask and get an answer that isn't too dickish, or maybe not dickish at all.

[–] adam_y@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Here's the wild thing, there are no neurotypical, it is a fictional point on a weird scale.

Even worse, the folk you think are neurotypical all feel like this too.

If we find the commonality we can agree on change. If we keep talking about us vs them, only barriers will go up.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I am just out of kicking distance of diagnosable and I can confirm OP is a very general experience. It's the spotlight effect basically.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 3 weeks ago

... again?