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[–] [email protected] 36 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Hair plugs are gender affirming care.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

Buttplugs are gender affirming care (?)

[–] [email protected] 55 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Reminded me of this classic:

[–] [email protected] 9 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Gotta say that sounds fun, though. Know where your food comes from. Everybody's gotta eat and deserves to know what goes into producing what they are made of.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Depending on the surrounding context, it actually isn't that bad of an idea. I do think a lot of "shit that just has to be done" is better served as collective duties instead of "let the poor people that have no choice do it".

That being said, it often also ends up rife with corruption (see conscription/draft dodging tactics) in current contexts. And it can be used as a punishment instead of a duty.

Also, in this specific case, it would essentially be free labour in service not really of the common good, but in service of privately owned farms, which I think are romanticised a lot. Homesteading is not the standard, most are actually already pretty big, and consolidation is still the name of the game.

I am pretty sure the solution the system will land on with the current trajectory of things will be an even more intensive use of prison labour. (i.e. legal slavery)

[–] [email protected] 14 points 12 hours ago

It would definitely be a great leap forward

[–] [email protected] 29 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Those hair plugs grew roots and infected his brain lol

[–] [email protected] 19 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Nope. The racism, fascism, bigotry, it’s all him. It runs in the family.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

None of those things are hereditary. They are taught and passed down.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

That’s what I tried to imply. Sorry.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

something tells me elon's daughter isn't a big fan of fascism and bigotry

[–] [email protected] 16 points 15 hours ago

His not being in his kids lives is great for them.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (2 children)

Surely we're above making fun of male pattern baldness

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 hours ago

It feels more like the meme is making fun of Elon Musk.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

As a bald man, I'm okay with the joke. Especially if it's something he's sensitive about.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Okay. But can you see that others who might be more sensitive about their male pattern baldness could feel unwelcome in this community?

I understand the point that a cruel man does not necessarily deserve protection from cruelty, but what's the point of mocking him for his looks other than cruelty?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

you're allowed to mock supremacists for their appearance. they claim to have superior genes, they should be held accountable for it. it's always the fugliest motherfuckers too.

this particular post is different too I feel. it's less about baldness per se and more about hairstyle. like wtf is he doing. being bald does not make that hairstyle ok, or immune to ridicule. he was rich back then, he could afford to look better.

too bad he can't do much about his troglodyte face and body.