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Sucks for his family. I hope his daughter recovers nonetheless, and he realizes his role in her suffering.

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[–] [email protected] 180 points 1 month ago (3 children)

He's the finance director at UH and he can't afford to send his kid to hospital? -_-

[–] [email protected] 79 points 1 month ago

Trying to get sympathy points and extra cash?

[–] [email protected] 76 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not without having to sell his vacation home or boat.

[–] [email protected] 69 points 1 month ago (1 children)

"Sorry Emma, daddy needs his vacation time to handle his job of denying people healthcare."

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

He really denied a lot to earn that third yacht

[–] [email protected] 78 points 1 month ago (3 children)

This one of those "leopardsatmyface" kinda posts

[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Nowhere in the post do they make any indication that their insurance (or independent wealth) isn't covering the healthcare. This is a person who's job is to make money off of people in poor health, why wouldn't he try to profit off of his own family?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

True. Furthermore, does the daughter really have leukemia? Does the daughter really exists?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Is it more evil to lie about a child with leukemia for profit or exploit an actual child with leukemia for profit? That's your answer.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They work in healthcare and financing. The very branch that has worked to mess up healthcare prices. Now that he needs healthcare to be affordable, he is asking for help trying to afford healthcare. That's what gofundme is for.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My guess is that they are wealthy enough/actually receive good insurance coverage, that without the gofundme, they would still be able to afford it just fine. I think they created the gofundme just because they knew it would make some money.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Well, they are a bit evil in that way I suppose

[–] GreyEyedGhost 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Doing fake charity runs is one way of making money I suppose

[–] GreyEyedGhost 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Pretty sure the Financial Director of a health insurance company is making a little more than minimum wage...and if suspect it has something to do with making sure as little of that money leaves the company as possible.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

A dedicated asshole

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago

Written by a leopard

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'm wondering what kind of community leopard-sat-my-face would be. Probably not a good one.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

One of the furry ones

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Full of large cats, really cute :p

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

The US medical system is a fucking joke, they have the GoFundMe at 78,000 as the goal, which don't get me wrong is no small chunk of change, but the fact that if they didn't have insurance it would cost around 45,000 the first year alone in just diagnosis and treatment costs, average 7,000 per year after that and then average 114,000 the last year of treatment is extortionary.

Granted I would expect someone like that would have insurance for the family, which means realistically they're probably only going to have like a $10,000 yearly deductible but still

[–] Pyr_Pressure 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's because hospitals and insurance companies collaborate to inflate prices to skim money off the top.

A procedure that should cost $1,000 anywhere else is magically $10,000 in America so that Americans pay $1000 out of pocket and then the insurance company pays $9000, because they already collected $20,000 from the collective pool of Americans paying for their "service" since it's "unaffordable" to not have insurance since insurance companies have increased the price to make it so they are necessary.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I have a decent public healthcare, but also a private one from my employer. It's around 950 euros/year... And I don't have to pay anything out of pocket for 99% of stuff. I haven't paid anything in the last 10 years, aside from the medicines which are generally very cheap and some visits for my son (sleep coach and stuff like that)

US health system is a scam.

HOWEVER, I'm seeing enshitification looming. More than once I've been recommend unnecessary treatments or out of pocket ones when there were some covered or even free. Last time I went for a dental cleaning they had me locked with a sales person trying to offer brackets.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago (2 children)

This kind of BS shouldn't be allowed on LinkedIn. That platform is so cursed I've purged all my info from it. I'll straight up never use it again.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

I remember when I left the platform about ten years ago I actually had to call the company to finalize the deletion of my account, the process was so convoluted. I had a client who was also trying to leave, he literally contracted me to handle the account removal for him after I told him about my own ordeal. Hopefully it's at least automated today.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I have one but I never use it? It just seems super dystopian to me. I sometimes see that coworks are using it fairly regularly, and I don't understand. It's like Facebook nonsense with a corporate twist. It's so weird, but I guess it makes sense if you want to fall into the "yes man" bootlicking management type role

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Exactly, it's always given me a corporate cult vibe. People bragging about how they slave 80 hours a week for a corporation that exploits them and would cast them away in a heartbeat if it was more profitable. Just gross sycophants and grifters.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago

Maybe he can ask their AI underwriters for some tots and pears.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Oh, he knows what he's doing.

[–] phoenixz 1 points 1 month ago

If this is real then sorry, but not sorry.

Sucks to be the little girl but your father is a monster who actively tortures and kills people every day, you won't get sympathy from me anymore you won't get help, you will get nothing. If you die, then I'm sorry for you, but thousands of other kids have suffered and died through the company where your sweet sweet father makes the rules.

Thing is, when (if) you grow up, you will likely follow in his foot steps because he'll teach you how to screw people over and not feel bad about it

I'm sorry, but I feel nothing for you. If I had to choose between helping you or stopping your father, I'd do the latter as that would ease more suffering. I'm sorry, but I can't and won't feel bad for you, not anymore. My tolerance is gone, it's grinded to dust by years of abusive asshole after abusive asshole.

Your father and his kind created this idea where you have to beg online for someone to ease the suffering of your child only to have some asshole like Andrew Tate laugh at you, call you a loser, and brag about his car. Tate, for what it's worth, can be killed and I will toast an expensit drink on that. He's human scum.

So yeah, enjoy your cancer little girl, I hope you get the exact same what all other children have gone through thanks to your father. Goes to show that the asshole couldn't even be bothered to just change the rules for his own daughter, makes you wonder how much he really loves her.

Fuck om dark, I'm cynical, but that is what the world made me