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[–] [email protected] 166 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The Internet is not a place for children, stop trying to make it one and make parents responsible again for the things their kids consume.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago

Exactly. Let them access specific sites you trust as they need to, and monitor their use. As they earn your trust, teach them how to avoid the worst of it and let them go on their own more and more.

That's how anything works with kids. Monitor them as they do something new, then let out the leash as they earn your trust, until they no longer need the leash.

[–] phoenixz 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Well yes, but....

Loads and loads of parents simply aren't fit to fit the description. There are loads of idiots out there that just don't care that their five year old watches porn. Then there is the class of idiots that think their little angel would never do such horrendous things, they're with God, didn't you know?

As an aside, I'm really curious as to what the deleterious effects are on kids, say, 12+ that watch porn. I was a kid like that over 3 decades ago and though porn wasn't as readily available as it was today, I remember watching the encrypted porn channel for the eventual boob flash, or the mosaic channel that would show 20x20 px porn. Actual porn from BBS-es (pre internet dial in systems) came into my life at about... 15-ish, I'd say, and it didn't affect me negatively whatsoever.

I'd definitely would like to see the difference between the effects on kids watching porn vs kids watching ultra violent movies or even real violence online. I'd wager the latter being more harmful than porn (be it porn combined with well designed sex education in schools, so good with that US kids!)

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

True but if we take bad parenting as a design point then we might as well ban 80% of all things in the world. Forks, knives, power outlets, glue, sharp furniture corners.... Baths, what if your kid drowns cus of bad parenting.

[–] [email protected] 98 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Or, you know, parents could actually use parental controls.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago

Or actually monitor their kids' internet use.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

But that would mean parents would have to learn something new. Nah.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

If only parental controls would work decently...

But I agree, this should be a matter of education and the parents should be present and educate their children.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 month ago

Nothing disgusts me more than Puritans.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The fascist censorship regime is just ramping up their efforts in Europe. The Nazis took over again.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

In most of EU there are laws that forbid minors to access some products (like, you cannot sell alcool to minors). Don't see as fascist to make those laws respected.

I mean, if a minor buys a liquor from a store and it is caught, the store pays a fine (or it is temporary closed or whatever the law says), why should be a company that sell pornography (or enable to watch it) not be responsible the same way ? Just because it is on internet and it is a US company ?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes, I am familiar with the ‘think of the children!’ Trojan horse tactic.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Meaning, the parents shouldn't let the child buy stuff on pornhub?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Meaning, the seller should not allow the minor to buy stuff on pornhub.

The law did not say that the minor could not try to buy pornography from the newsstand (or whatever else is forbidden to him) but that the seller could not sell to him.
Same here, a minor could try to buy, the seller must not sell to him. That is valid also for accessing the site.

So I fully agree that the EU comission check if this laws is respected also on internet.

For me the only thing to discuss about this is the "how it is done" which can be an interesting discusssion in itself.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

But it's not about selling online but about access. Which is parental responsibility.

Why do we restrict porn at 16 anyway? Make it 13 or 12 to make more sense.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

But it’s not about selling online but about access. Which is parental responsibility.

Fully agree.
But I was not against the fact that also the site check if who is trying to access can legally access (and I don't think the simple "Are you of legal age" question is enough)

Why do we restrict porn at 16 anyway? Make it 13 or 12 to make more sense.

It is 18 here, but it can be a nice discussion.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

I’ll bet they are!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Good thing there are no actual problems to solve...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

So not just I have to use Tor in Russia for those, but I'll also have to use non-EU exit nodes. Thank you morons.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I can't believe the EU would be so inconsiderate to Russians like that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Yes! Ignoring their main realistic purpose

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

And not the American states were mandatory age verification is the law.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Holy shit what? TLDR someone pls