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In comment sections or in community pages, it's mostly an ocean of default avatars.

As a UI developer, that's always been a gripe because I put a lot of effort into making them look good and scale properly, etc. When I see 60-70% or more accounts sporting the default avatar, it makes me wonder why I even bother.

So, since this bugs me so much, figured I'd just ask.

Lemm.ee users I can understand because of the waiting period for uploads, but AFAIK, most instances don't have that restriction. Even then, there are plenty of .ee accounts that never bother to go back and set one.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I don't see the point. Even on my monster screen they're only 6mm² so if it's anything other than simple line art it's just a small meaningless square of digital noise.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because having a pfp is gay

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I haven't cared about stuff like that since I was 15

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gonna chime in here and agree that its because its because I never see anyone else's or mine, even on the website

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

If you're using the Lemmy Web UI, go to your account settings. "Show Avatars" is a checkbox on the lower, left-hand panel. You might have unchecked it inadvertently.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They are just so small idrc about others so I dont bother to put one

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

When I first set up my account I could not find where to add an avatar (I didn't really look that hard) I figured I would get back to it later and only remembered about it from this post.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Oh hey Bill, I didn’t know my fbi agent had a Lemmy account

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I set my avatar, but I use old.lemmy.world and can't see it anyway.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

why would I set a custom avatar?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I have a username. That's all the identifying I need. Why do you feel the need to twitterfy lemmy?

[–] NENathaniel 3 points 1 week ago

Anyone know if there's a way to see avatar's through Voyager?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Didn’t know they were a thing and Voyager doesn’t support them.

As a software developer I’ve come to realise that most of the stuff I put extra attention to, actual users don’t care and now in just do what people ask for and nothing more.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I can't see anyone's avatars and did not know I could set one, but I also wouldn't if I could as I think they're always a bit cringe. I prefer the sea of anonymity.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I'm ugly and I don't like cartoon pfp

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

There, I added an avatar.

That's me under my Performance Designs Spectre 150, circa 1997 or 98... Can't remember as I've slept since then.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I tried, there was an issue uploading the picture and I just couldn't be bothered to look deeper into it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Can't see them on Lemmy Connect either. I like having this platform be as distanced from social media attributes as possible. Like other users have said, every extra bit of anonymity is a boon.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I can't remember if I even bothered setting one. My app doesn't use them. I don't find them particularly useful on forums anyways. I only like them on real time chat apps where I know I'll be interacting with the same folks over and over again.

Edit: I did set one up!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I don't know why others don't but I'll say why I do, which is that I noticed people were remembering my username whether I had an image or not, so why not have an image? And it was early days, still is, so I figured... may as well be the first static.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

If I wanted someone’s opinion to matter more based on who they are, I’d use Mastodon.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I mostly browse while at work to kill time... I don't have access to the avatar I would use at work. Also I don't think I see people's avatars with the front end I use?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

i havent set it to discord either, or anywhere else either for that matter. Only for steam, but that is because i set it when i was child and i havent wanted to get rid of it for nostalagia's sake and because i cant think of anything better.

it just feels unnecessary

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Avatars are a psychological trick useful for building up sunk cost fallacy and making a user more likely to personally identify with a product. I don't have social media avatars for the same reason I don't have "nabisco" tattooed on my asscheek.

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