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Our home is our castle, and it's where we spend most our time. You may have just a room, bedsit, or mansion... what styles have you done it in?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I’m all in (or as much as I can afford) on the arts and crafts aesthetic. We have some functional but cheap furniture that we are slowly (slooowly) replacing with quality wood furniture but oof it costs a ton. And we have a few pretty stained glass lamps and light fixtures.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Yes it's really expensive. It's 100% worth it but it's definitely an ongoing project! What's your favourite piece?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Ooh tough call. Probably my dining room table. It’s a trestle table and I think it’s Amish made.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

Oooooh nice!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

real art from artists

[–] [email protected] 3 points 20 hours ago

What came here before and still works

Or can't be moved like the huge ass wooden boxed tv. That fucker is permanent. A focal piece I guess!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Almost all our furniture is mismatched hand-me-downs. Likewise the framed art prints on the walls, but we've started adding a bit of levity to the baroque and cubist pieces in the last few years.

Oh, and every horizontal surface is absolutely cluttered because we're a 4-person polycule and all of us are various degrees of ADHD XD

[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I really like that kind of decor! Plus we neurodiverse people really are the best

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

It is way easier for me to get along with the neurospicy types. =D

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Me too! I find others in the strangest of places

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Do we have a word like "gaydar" but for AuADHD? XD

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

We should totally make one up!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I mean,, "audar" kinda fits but it feels weird to say aloud. 🤔

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Neurodar! Sounds like a dinosaur though

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Heck, that works well enough for me. =D

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

It's official! We'll put it in the WomensStuff official vocabulary haha

[–] [email protected] 3 points 22 hours ago

Minimalistic, clean lines. I don't like a lot of detailing or filigree on things because it just collects dust and makes it so much more work to keep things clean. No curtains and only a limited amount of tchotchkies for the same reason. Other than that, I like a lot of grey, blues, and greens, with the occasional pop of something bright. Soft, textured fabrics for duvet, throw pillows, and area rugs.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I call it "I'm tired and don't have a lot of money" chic.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I've definitely had that style in the past. Totally necessary sometimes

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

My home is really girly I love Cath Kidston and Laura Ashley. If a 5 year old child would like it so will I! I have cuddly toys on display with no shame. My favourite wallpaper in the house is this one with stags on it (one wall only):

[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Between this and the one you had put in a few weeks ago, your taste in wallpaper is on point!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago

Thanks Klem!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Bright colors, large puffy furniture, wood, but no clutter. I’m planning to add wall shelves.

How about you?