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[–] Randomgal 30 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Lemmy is as much of a cesspool as Twitter, but left-tinted.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago

I have to upvote for being one of the few giving a good answer to the prompt, regardless of my lack of agreement.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Ah yes, "leftist" Lemmy where neopronouns are trolling, men are the most repressed and Rowling said nothing wrong. Sometimes I really hate this place...

[–] melsaskca 23 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The stock market is a scam, value has become meaningless, and capitalism is a slow march to societal breakdown and revolution.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

that would be unpopular on twitter, not here

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

People who say schools don’t teach anything useful are failed students.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Pick your cutoff age but it should be illegal to groom children into an organized religion. Frankly, since human brains are still developing until age 24-25 that would be my choice but 21 would be acceptable. "Let go and let god" is literally advocating for a trained lack of critical thinking skills.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Grooming is so gross, but it's not like Christians are out there targeting children, right? That would be insane wouldn't it, everyone?

https://www.cefonline.com/articles/teach-kids-articles/the-4-14-window/

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Sugar and the industrial farming system are literally poisoning the food supply and driving a epidemic of chronic disease globally

[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I think education should be demanding, so much so that we should all be fine with kids failing at it instead of blaming the school for it. I think grades should only and honestly reflect the level of understanding of each student on whatever they are supposed to be learning, not make them feel good about themselves.

The school should not be there to make the student feel 'good' or 'understood' (that's the family's job). School main purpose should be to make them smarter, which is something that demands practice and efforts, like anything.

Making them smarter means making them better equipped to deal with the real world, that is not a fairy tale kingdom filled with nice people and magical animals that will make them feel welcome and where they lived happily ever after.

Instead of lying to those kids, the school should help them prepare to become an adult person able to face a not-perfect world with a not perfect population, and teach them how to use their effing brains to solve any of the many problems they will face in their life (personal as well as professional)—and for that making them study their lessons, aka memorize stuff (even stupid shit one will never use again) and having to do their stupid homework, and get a failing grade when they don't, is still the best and the simplest way to develop.

Kids that are being told they're amazing perfect little creatures (they're not), and that they should never have to break a sweat in school (they should) are being lied to. Even more sadly for them, compared to those other kids that are still encouraged to face that they're aren't perfect angels and that they should put in the work, every single day, all year long, they're the ones being screwed up. Big.

Feel free to downvote as much as you want.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

YES

and also stop calling kids "gifted" for a couple of good grades

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago

Milk is gross

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

You don't need more protein, you need more fiber.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

fr fiber deficiency is a major issue

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Aggresive leftifts confirm the right wing bias, creating an escalating dynamic.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yes extremists on both sides can be truly awful. Plus some people are just aggressive, it's nasty to deal with and really aggravated things

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[–] Bebopalouie 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (7 children)

This “hydration” crap.

Up until the late 1970’s for approx 300,000 years of humans being around hydrated themselves just fine.

Long as there was water available one would drink when their body signaled them by getting thirsty (don’t care about exceptions to the rule where someone has a medical issue or if water was limited in high school, your a big person now). All of a sudden humans forgot to drink fluids?

Bullshit.

It’s just yet another scam the drink makers have perpetrated to get people to buy the various liquid products they sell.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It’s just yet another scam the drink makers have perpetrated to get people to buy the various liquid products they sell.

you know you can still drink water, right? you dont need dr pepper or airup or whatever scam is currently trending to be hydrated, just water

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

People have been living longer and longer. If you want the same life span as our ancestors, then follow their diet.

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[–] SplashJackson 11 points 6 days ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Anime and Weeb culture are a stain on humanity and objectively bad.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Forcing students to take notes is counterproductive: I was most successful in those classes in which I wasn’t forced to take notes. It only ever distracted me from listening to the teacher.

Also, for foreign language classes actually being forced to speak the language in class is so valuable. I had one teacher who focused on big cultural projects with very little language instruction and her students (including me) all did pretty poorly.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (7 children)

Forcing students to take notes is counterproductive: I was most successful in those classes in which I wasn’t forced to takes notes. Taking notes only distracted me from listening to the teacher.

I noticed more and more younger people thinking along that line. As an old fart myself, I will say I find this as worrisome as realizing the same younger generations are reading less and less books, even going to college.

I will also say it's because most of those younger people were never taught the proper technique of reading and note-taking (grossly summarized, note-taking is not about trying to write what's being said by the teacher/speaker, it's about synthesizing the ideas/infos in one's own words, so in reality there is very little writing to be done when listening to lesson or a lecture (good lectures are built around a lot of repetitions of the same information, over and over again, so the speaker can be pretty sure most students did get it).

Not being able to take-notes (and to read books) is a huge loss, for those kids. They should demand their teachers or their parents, or anyone that has learned it already, to teach them the technique but why would they even bother asking since they get no opportunity to realize how much they're missing out by not learning it? I'm sad for them, because they're the one being screwed up (compared to kids their age that do read and know how to take notes).

Also, for foreign language classes actually being forced to speak the language in class is so valuable. I had one teacher who focused on big cultural projects with very little language instruction and her students (including me) all did pretty poorly.

100% this. The only thing that should matter is to speak the language with as much excitement/fun/interest as possible. Even grammar, which is essential, comes second to that.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (2 children)

The mismanagement of housing in the West is an insurmountable failure that cannot be recovered from. American workers can never become competitive, and birth rate decline is a terminal cancer with no cure. The cost of living is artificial but there is no way to reset the suicide switch that is the atrocity of housing mismanagement in most Western countries.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I don't think humans deserve pets.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

I always thought dogs need their human, as much as the human needs their dog. It's a co-dependance, a mutual coping mechanism.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I’ve considered that it’s likely not ethical to have pets, but dogs at least have been bred over thousands of years to the point that they’ve become dependent on us.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Eating meat unnecessarily is immoral.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I agree - and I still eat meat. This is the only thing where I'm openly a hypocrite. I put convenence and my own health first even when I know the amound of suffering it causes. This all will chance once lab grown meat becomes a thing.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Schools should teach more practical subjects, they're more useful to loads of people and improve engagement. If they have to reduce subjects like history to do that then they should.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 days ago (7 children)

History? That's the one you wanna get rid off? Do you just want obedient working bees that easily fall for propaganda and previously used control tactics? 😔

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My late teens and early 20s would have been a lot less destructive if I had received even just a small amount of practical financial advice.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

As someone who's slightly center-right, a significant number of my opinions are unpopular on this platform. But setting politics and social issues aside, I'd say the nuclear bomb of my unpopular opinions is my belief in determinism - and, by extension, my claim that free will is an illusion.

By that, I mean the idea that you could have done otherwise in a given situation is false. If we had a time machine and could replay a moment exactly as it was, you'd make the same choice every single time. Whatever caused you to make that decision the first time would cause you to do it again - without exception.

A related belief of mine is that the sense of self is also an illusion. To me, these are two sides of the same coin. By “self,” I mean the feeling that there’s a subject behind your face, looking out at the world. But that’s just brain chemistry. There’s no point in the brain where it all comes together - no central “you” making decisions. That’s why there’s no free will either - because there’s nothing making the decisions. They’re simply being made.

The illusion comes from the fact of consciousness. The fact of subjective experience. It feels like something to be you, from the inside. There’s qualia to your existence.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (18 children)

I'm sorry to say, but I find that thinking really scary!

Can't it be used as an excuse everything? It wasn't me it was everything that others did before. Oh, and there's no me. There's no you either! So don't say that I hurt you, as that's impossible!

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