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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 minutes ago

Lemmy only. Reddit has become some strange mix of Quora and X or something like that at this point.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 minutes ago

Lemmy is my only social media

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 minute ago

Soon as I figure out Lemmy’s porn options I’m done with Reddit forever.

Til then tho, I’m happy to consume Reddit’s content without spending a single cent towards it or any of its advertisers.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 minutes ago

I stopped reddit a couple years ago, and I only use lemmy. This is like my 6th account, and instance hop. Definitely a system that works better for me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 minutes ago

It is not hardcore i'd actually advise anyone to limit its media following for its own mental health. I never feel better than on vacation during which I barely check news and internet

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 minutes ago

I actively avoid reddit links for the last 2 years.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 28 minutes ago

I don't know if I'm hardcore or not, but I've never had a Reddit account.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 29 minutes ago

I ditched reddit for good two years ago. Now I just use Lemmy, Tildes, and Lobste.rs

[–] [email protected] 2 points 53 minutes ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago

I use both because people in my home country use reddit and it is pretty useful. Those communities are non-existing in Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

account on lemmy, just lurking the start page once a day for reddit without an account

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

yep. i just need to know what's going on but i don't need to 'hang out'. lemmy doesn't have enough news to see the big picture.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 40 minutes ago

Only Lemmy for about a year now

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago

Gave up on Reddit after the shit show of 2022. Never looked back.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 51 minutes ago

Got banned from reddit but in the end they actually did me a favor.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 hours ago

Having come from reddit and already boycotting Facebook/Meta I don't feel hardcore using only Lemmy

It meets nearly all of my needs, and if the userbase picks up it will certainly eventually fill those needs as well

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

My 10+ year old account with high karma was perma banned overnight I got into an argument with a power tripping rad left mod. I'm left leaning politically, however if you arent rad left on Reddit then youre a fascist. They love that echo chamber. Honestly one of the best thibgs to ever happen to me. Reddit is bad for your mental health. And their power tripping mods are pretty much nazis

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

lol. you're going to have an awakening soon. lemmy is full of rad left. reddit looks moderate by comparison.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 minutes ago

Have been here well over a year now and can confidently say the majority of lemmy users are left, not rad left. Wanting basic human rights for all isn't a radical idea, thinking gay people should have the right to get married isn't a radical idea, wanting teans folks to have their medical needs met isn't a radical idea

I'm not in for any awakening. I've done been awake, are you?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 hours ago

I’m a Reddit blackout leaver, never going back. Ever.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Instagram has its grip on me sadly. Tho after the localhost fiasco I switched over to browser Instagram

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

what do you mean localhost fiasco? what happened

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

The apps would open up a port that website Facebook integration tried to call to get around all tracking protections.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 minutes ago (1 children)

wow, do you have an article or something about that? would love to read more about the technical details.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I basically only use Lemmy. Since reddit first tried to restrict their API I've been outta there. Other that that I use Facebook for marketplace because less and less is on Craigslist

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 hours ago

I was more or less exclusively lemmy for a good year or so, up until several months ago.

I would've logged into reddit maybe 3 or 4 times in the last year.

Sadly, I have to admit that browsing reddit with redlib or something is better than lemmy.

Lemmys main virtue is that its not reddit.

There's less content here, and it really is an echo chamber.

[–] melsaskca 6 points 4 hours ago

I am Canadian. I quit Reddit and joined Lemmy several months ago. Not because of any issues with Reddit but because of all that american trump 51st state crap.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

I only use reddit sometimes when I am searching something on google (i am just adding 'reddit' after keywords). The bonus is that I don't get AI answers when I do this.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

That you know of, for now

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 hours ago

I only visit Reddit is search results take me there for a specific reason. Otherwise, I'm hardcore as fuck

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Yes.

You don't understand how dead and foreclosed corporate social media appears to me if that surprises.

I don't like feeling like I am a tree being fed into a woodchipper.

I never fit in on corporate social media and after facebook I never found another corporate digital community that structurally felt like home (not just the vibe like Bluesky or Threads which are such false promises it physically hurts).

However the corporate social media platform that has isolated me the most and hurt my vim for life most deeply is Discord and it isn't even close.

I consider myself literally in a battle of life and death fighting the tide of Discord because I am not welcome there, my infodumps and tangents categorically are rejected by the format, the kinds of conversations I want to have are always drowned out and chat topics are so overly specific and narrow there is nothing to discover in the first place.

Edit I watch a lot of Youtube so I guess I can't say yes but I have a peertube creator account and I am in it for the long haul so shrugs it is what it is.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I have a reddit and IG account but don't look at them. The only social media apps I have on my phone are for lemmy and mastodon.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I have Reddit acounts still so I can go back and delete my posts when they magically re-appear. The only time I see reddit is when a search leads me to them for problem solving. While I'm there, I check to make sure my deleted posts stay deleted.

I have IG and TT, but they're only there so when my wife sends me a link I 'need' to watch I can do so, then I disable the app again.

The only things I consume regularly are Lemmy, Pifed and Pixelfed. Occasionally, I have to trudge into Facebook to communicate with my HOA.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I exclusively use Lemmy to complain when my new Reddit account gets shadowbanned again. The issue is that the communities here simply are not big enough. I go on the Lemmy alternatives of the subreddits I visit often and there are like 4 posts over the course of multiple years

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago

I only use Lemmy unless Internet search results bring me to a reddit post for an answer to a question. I don't comment on reddit anymore or even browse it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

Oh I only use Lemmy, I didn't use Reddit in the past anyway, Lemmy is my first actual experience

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

not quite

I nearly exclusively use Lemmy over Reddit, mastadon over xitter and Facebook, pixelfed over Instagram, ("nearly" because I still have the accounts, in case someone needs to contact me there). Although Lemmy is the only one I use frequently.

I still use YouTube and tiktok instead of peertube and loops though. They're just not big enough to host the content I'm interested in.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

I return to Reddit mostly to harvest memes to bring here, or to ask obscure questions that I don't think there's enough of an audience here to get a good answer (I'm still looking for the "The Swaggoraki are swarming!" pic, if any Warhammer meme fans can find it)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you for your meme harvesting work it is honorable and appreciated

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

I work for the good people of the Fediverse 🙏

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

on top of these, any call to arms spreading the good word of the fediverse

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I never go to Reddit anymore after moving to Lemmy, but I do sometimes end up on a Reddit post it's a relevant search result.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Reddit for browsing hobby-related stuff, Lemmy if I want to get mad at Israel, seeing as that's every comment section and every single post.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

seeing as that's every comment section and every single post.

Why shouldn't it be?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

sometimes open old.reddit.com when i need info but otherwise lemmy and i compartmentalize accounts into different languages

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

My social media accounts are here, reddit, and Mastodon. Local community subreddit is too useful.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I got banned from Reddit for calling an Anti-vaxxer a waste of oxygen :3

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