def thrifting, i have exclusively built an entire wardrobe solely by hitting up every thrift store in the area every couple of weeks
if you live near a larger city i recommend looking there, you'll tend to get a much wider range of stuff.
you're absolutely right. i hope my comment didn't come off as blaming or unnecessarily insensitive. i was raised as a boy and i was easily the only one i knew who had to do their own laundry, dishes, cooking etc until mastery. it's a sad state of affairs that that's not considered normal for every child (excepting differences in ability ofc).
patriachy hurts men too
bell hooks was right as usual. patriarchy eviscerates men first and then radiates outward to fuck the rest of us over.
in that case there are the same 2015-era facebook-tier memes back on