Well, for a lot of neurodivergent people it's actually a part of who we are, not a condition we have, so even though you might not like it doesn't mean it's wrong. Personally I hate people telling me that I have autism and ADHD. I am both those things.
This article explains it quite well and even though it's about autistic people it goes for ADHD people as well.
Als genug Platz werden generell 1,8m angenommen, also macht das durchaus einen Unterschied.