That is really nice. Feels very peaceful. Is this your work? If so, great job.
MNByChoice
joined 2 years ago
After reading your replies, I am on edge.
Please consider the following questions.
What is the power dynamic?
Are there good reasons to stonewall you?
What happened to the first few teams you worked with? Did the engineers involved advance in their careers? Do they talk with you still? What about their prior interactions with your team and department? Do those engineers still work at the company?
If you are confident you are there to help then just speaking to them like people. Don't bullshit them. Push them up in their careers when you can. Get them what resources you can. Support them in their goals. Do a good job and you won't get them to shut up.
random crap I do in my term
/dev/shm is great for that. :) Automatically cleans up regardless of distribution.
I don't think the "natural properties" of a career or industry will be enough to be lowest. I think an industry or career with high oversight from many individuals and regulators. Likely something that has fucked up before, and massively.
Slot machine programmer.
- regulated industry
- work can be checked many times
- customers (casinos) don't want to be fucked
- gamblers don't want to be fucked
- loads of money to be made doing things well
- lots of scary people willing to drop you in a hole
Remember we gotta open the pages we want more news like.
98SE was peak.
Better Ohio than Indiana....
Far sadder than I had hoped. Thanks for linking this.
I am afraid you are misunderstanding me.
There is no way to control who you are attracted to. You control do fully control what you act on.
You could avoid looking at "supermodels". Maybe that will help.
If you want to date supermodels, then improve yourself enough they want to date you. If that is not possible, then consider getting professional psychiatric help for this "supermodel" thing.
Regular people should improve themselves. That is all they can do.
Stop focusing on your looks. Become someone who: likes themselves, is funny, is caring, is growing their career, is good fixing things, is strong, is a leader, helps others, can sing well, or something else.
Unexpectedly, showing progress is nearly as important than the end state. Someone growing their career and becoming funny, gets most of the points for having a good career and being funny (note actual progress, not day dreaming).
My advice is to pursue whatever you guess will help you like yourself, but that is not necessary.
Improve yourself.
Shocking it is so low given the bombings and invasion and death.
Good job Ukrainians!