MyBrainHurts

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[–] MyBrainHurts 1 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Sorry, was responding to someone else and realized I'd forgotten about this over the weekend.

But yeah, if you've met an anti vaxxer, you'd know yet another form or whatever isn't really the friction that's going to get them to vaccinate. Right now, you're proposing setting up some sort of, I dunno, interview process where we figure out how much trauma or marginalization allows someone to exempt themselves. (Is being Jewish and having family members who were experimented on enough? How about being Black but in Canada? Or having relatives from any number of autocratic regimes where government trust is not really a thing? And then how are we going to check this?)

This proposal is at a time when we don't have enough nurses or doctors and you want to spend a silly amount of money on adding more bureaucracy to make things slightly more difficult for a group that already went through way harsher just a few years ago? Really? And then spend however much more to lose in court?

I get that not everyone thinks through the rammifications and anti-vaxxer = bad so punish them but this doesn't seem particularly practical or beneficial no matter how laudable the goal of more vaccinations is.

[–] MyBrainHurts 3 points 1 week ago

Exactly! "Hey, being a friend is great but not great enough that I value it if you won't sleep with me!" And worse, the guy seems to know she's in a bad place and is just "yeah, sure, but what about me??? I wanna sleep with her, she knows this and hasn't acted on it so either lemme bang or gtfo, fuck your mental state.")

Also, love the picture.

[–] MyBrainHurts 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Maybe but I think you either really want this guy to be the good guy here or you're not reading particularly critically. This guy makes an actual analogy of friendship as "like only being allowed to smell a fine wine instead of drinking it." which is pretty gross, like the point of friendship is actually dating or nothing. (No one buys a wine to smell it, whereas most normal people can just be friends of whatever gender to be friends.)

And this isn't a case of "she just doesn't know how I feel!" as he states at the beginning she knows, so she is un interested or not in the right space.

And yeah, "You’re the one equating taking a girl out on a date with having sex." because what most dating is about is a platonic hand holding?

I get I'm online and this place skews young, male and not particularly social but this is fairly goshdarn creepy. Like, is this guy unable to function around interesting women who have partners? Or is it just that this woman has the audacity to be single while he's single and RIGHT HERE and they're already friends so clearly she owes him? Ugh.

Edit: I don't think Lemmy has enough women for a vibrant NiceGuys community but if you're still on reddit, you should give r/NiceGuys a whirl. It's kind of full of this self pitying "but I'm her friend, surely she should want to date me" kinda creepiness.

[–] MyBrainHurts 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What a terrible article. Just good goddamn.

[–] MyBrainHurts 2 points 1 week ago

Well yeah, it's not like you'd have a choice. She does not allow insubordination.

[–] MyBrainHurts 0 points 1 week ago (4 children)

A) It's not an analogy, it's a summation of facts.

B) I would put heavy money says F Tony finds this person fairly attractive and bizzarely, this situation hasn't arisen with an unattractive female friend.

C) I've been that asshole, I get it. But personally, a huge part of maturing from a boy to a man was learning the difference between friendship and romance, and that a friendship with an attractive woman who seems super compatible doesn't mean a romantic relationship is the next or best step. (Also, how fucking shitty is this to our lady friends?) It's a weird lesson and not one that everyone learns but my God, the world opens up once/if you do figure it out.

[–] MyBrainHurts 3 points 1 week ago (8 children)

I'd like to be friends but only if we can have sex.

Doesn't really sound like a rock solid friendship there.

[–] MyBrainHurts 23 points 2 weeks ago

Ha, had the exact same "huh, wait what?" Moment.

If we want to recruit and maintain the best while underpaying them and reducing physical overhead, remote work seems ideal.

[–] MyBrainHurts 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (10 children)

Maybe you should learn more about how the system functions before demanding changes?

Vaccines are largely done in schools with parents having to opt out.

All you've prosed is to add a weird layer of bureaucracy with no discernible benefit.

Edit: And yes, refusals to vaccinate are already part of someone's record. (This system is already used to contact people who have refused and to offer another round of immunizations etc.)

[–] MyBrainHurts 1 points 2 weeks ago (12 children)

They already are opt out, not opt in.

[–] MyBrainHurts 1 points 2 weeks ago (14 children)

Sorry, I'm clearly not understanding your position... Vaccines should be mandatory but also not?

 

For obvious reasons I'm trying to be more local and cutting out American produce, so I figured a CSA box (Community Supported Agriculture) would be a good move. Unfortunately, DuckDuckGo has given a bewildering collection of results and I've heard some CSAs are less good than others. Have any of you fine folks used any, have any recommendations or anything else that might help?

 

Seeing as they're getting targeted right now and are first on trump's chopping block...

I mean, it's not like we buy lumps of steel but... I dunno, I figure I'd turn it to the wisdom of the crowds. I know steel/aluminum are mostly input products but there have to be finished products from friendly countries/Canada which use steel and aluminum and thus support our industry, albeit indirectly, right?

 

Very well put. Saw it on bluesky, hadn't seen it here. Apologies if this is the wrong community!

 

I'm thinking of my friends and family who aren't on an alternative social media that loves Linux and Star Trek memes. I've been recommending stuff (I'll put in the comments) they can do that I think is easy and helpful but curious to see what your thoughts/recommendations are!

 

Was about to renew my Cypress pass and double checked this.

As far as I can tell, Cypress is owned by Boyne Resorts (Michigan based.)

Seymour seems owned by a local Vancouver family while Grouse is owned by Northland Properties Corporation which started in BC and is headquartered in Vancouver.

Looks like I'll be trying out Seymour next season!

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