Oh honey get the fuck out now, that's not a man, that's a time bomb.
He doesn't see you as a sapient person, he sees you as a fickle object he must appease just enough so he can get what he wants from you. Because of that, there isn't anything you can say that will help him today.
The break up won't be pretty, but you'll be so much happier with someone else in the long term.
Insane that our taxes go to this. Our tax dollars belong in the pockets of hard working billionaires, oil companies and weapons manufacturers.