Oh yeah, I wasn't advocating for that course of action. Just stating from experience that it works but also that it doesn't necessarily fix all problems. There just isn't a good way to heal from this pain other than just wait and work on yourself.
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The federal minimum wage for tipped workers is $2.13/hr. Basically nothing. It wouldn't cover your gas cost to go to work in most cases.
Of course no one said anything. That would be rude. But not tipping your server is very much an asshole move, foreign or not. Those service industry workers rely on the tips because their wages are basically nothing. I agree that they should be paid a fair wage but that's just not how it works here in the US.
the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else
This does work most of the time but you also run the risk of falling for someone who isn't a great fit and then you're back in the same cycle.
Time heals all wounds, but that doesn't mean you won't have a scar.
Dear lord what a dumbass. You and everyone else carries around the spy device by choice, all day every day. I'm using it to type this comment. You're using it to read this comment. The thing has multiple cameras and microphones and is 100% listening to and watching everything we say or do. It's your phone, if that's not obvious by now.
RIP Johnny B. Goodenough. What a legend.
I've been stuck on All The Mods 8 (Minecraft "kitchen sink" modpack) for the last week or two. Kinda just caveman-ing my way through all the quests. Playing with Minecolonies and setting up an RFTools Builder in the mining dimension so I don't have to manually mine most resources any more. I keep meaning to get back into ComputerCraft, maybe that's my objective for this evening.
Ah, well if you do end up hosting a thing, consider being open minded about the alcohol. For some, having the alcohol will be a big part of the social experience and if it's not allowed, they may not show up.
Well, one solution seems fairly obvious. Have a drink or two to lower inhibitions and loosen up but be careful with that one. Super easy to overdo it.
What about having a get together someplace more private? Your place or a friend's.
I'm with you tho, bars suck.
I'd be flattered but honest. Being approached like that is a complement no matter the source. As a dude, I can count the number of times I've been hit on, on one hand.
We door dash for extra money. If not for tips, it wouldn't be worth it. They do offer an hourly rate if you choose to take it vs being paid per order but I'm not sure how that all works, we always take the per order pay.