indepndnt

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[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

The post in the screen shot is dated February 14, 2025 though?

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Is anyone else completely not surprised by DC's being "sub"?

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago

Uh, you're either supposed to complain about censoring or over-analyze the meme. What is this clever, amusing comment? Are you sure you're on the right site?

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 24 points 1 month ago

I get the joke, and certainly not all self-help books are good, but also people are unique and at different places in their lives. With just a little introspection one can probably tell which book would be better for them. Maybe they say yes too much and would benefit from learning how and when to say no; or they say no to everything and would benefit from learning to embrace new experiences.

Or, you know, pick one up and thumb through a few pages.

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

I'm good now, thanks 🙂

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Hey bud it sounds like our experiences may have quite a bit of overlap. I think the #1 thing that helps here is learning to have and respect healthy boundaries. Internal and external boundaries allow you to have more fulfilling relationships and feel more fulfilled yourself. These are things that a lot of people kind of implicitly learn from their families, but we weren't so lucky. If you have the option and can find a good therapist, they can help you with this. Otherwise, there are a lot of good books about boundaries that you can probably get from your local library or Amazon.

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

That's what I did, still have some trouble with IRL relationships though.

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

It's 942822688476

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

I highly recommend reading the rest of the book. bell hooks acknowledges the roles that women play in inflicting the harms on boys and men. Reading that book was the most understood I had ever felt as a cis man who until then didn't really know what feminism was about.

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I don't know what those flags mean, but from context I think this is a command I've needed a bunch of times but haven't had the time or energy to learn about yet. So thanks! I can't wait to try it!

 

I read most of this article trying to determine if I was impacted, so to save you the trouble:

The researchers traced the keys they compromised to devices that used custom, closed-source SSH implementations that didn’t implement the countermeasures found in OpenSSH and other widely used open source code libraries.

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