I whipped up a proof-of-concept user CSS that does this (and should automatically adapt to entries shifting down).
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@namespace url(http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml);
@-moz-document domain("pawb.social") {
a.text-info[title$="@lemmy.blahaj.zone"] span::before {
content: "❤ ";
color: red !important;
}
a.text-info:not([title*="."]) span::before {
content: "★ ";
color: yellow !important;
}
}
The first part prepends a red heart to usernames from a particular remote server (and variants of the CSS selector can be copy/pasted into a comma delimited list to allow the rule to apply to other servers as well).
The second part prepends a yellow star to usernames from the local server... by crudely assuming that they won't contain any periods (CSS selectors aren't flexible enough for anything more elegant). The selector can instead be applied to the first rule to make those hearts as well.