themadcodger

We all got to learn somewhere!

Lot of good advice here, but sometimes people forget what it's like to be a beginner. Since you don't know what you're doing, I would recommend not trying to host things on your home server and access it from the outside world. That usually involves port forwarding on your router, and that comes with a lot of risks, especially if you don't know what you're doing. Others have mentioned it, but a better option when you're starting off is to rent a vps and host your software there.

Squarespace might work, but my guess is it'll be easier to transfer your domain elsewhere. You can follow guides for that online and it's pretty straightforward.

Having a vps, a domain name, you're most of the way there. On your vps, you'll want to install a reverse proxy, which is what routes incoming urls to the right place (nextcloud.domain.tld goes here, calendar.domain.tld goes there).

Docker is another thing I'd recommend learning as a lot of what you'll self host will likely be in a Docker container. I'd watch a few YouTube videos to see how it's done. This channel has some great videos, and there are others out there.

It seems like a lot, but learn a little here and there and don't expect to have this all working overnight. You'll get there!

Yeah, I just don't know how we come back from this. It's not like the sane among us are suddenly going to decide to go along with fascism, nor is that 30+% that somehow control the narrative going to stop being the literal worst all of a sudden (see: post-Reconstruction).

So we… Balkanize? Hold US Nuremberg trials and actually do something about the priblem, assuming we can get to that point?

Same with the Misskey clones. There have been some very dramatic opinions on both sides.

Yeah, at this point I have zero sympathy for anyone who voted for them. You find yourself without health insurance, a home, being deported, having your workers deported? Welcome to the find out phase of FAaFO.

It's been on my list, and I like cozy games… I just never got around to it. And I'm cheap, so unless I noticed it on super sale, I'd put it off until later™️

No, I'm one of the special ones he won't turn on! The leopard won't eat my face!

Do they all have main character syndrome and think plot armor will save them?

Nextcloud got too bulky for me, and in my search I tried a number of different options before installing OpenCloud without realizing it isn't fully finished yet. That said, it still works well enough for my use case.

I originally got it from a series I was reading, but I always liked the idea of everyone having to face the afterlife they believed in. I'll return to the universe whence I came, that lot can burn forever in a fiery lake of their own making.

Like OP said, you can get Plasma on Bazzite, as well as install it right on a SteamDeck if you have one. It's constantly being updated, and if gaming is your main driver, Bazzite goes out of its way to make things work. In theory you wouldn't have to do any tinkering to get games running, with the added bonus that you won't be messing up or introducing any entropy to your system files. If something does go wrong, you can reboot into the previous release and it'll be back to where you just came from.

There's still plenty to learn if you want to, it's just not the traditional Linux distro setup.

Christianity is a death cult. 🫩

Tailscale is great for not opening your ports to the internet. Having it playable on a friend's appletv adds some extra complexity. Reverse proxy on a subdomain with something like fail2ban would work, but it does leave you more vulnerable.

Wait, for real? Gen Alpha doesn't know what a file type is??