transhetwarrior

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Hi! This is a thread to introduce yourself :]. I'm transhetwarrior, and I'm a third generation chinese american and a trans man! I'm learning cantonese and I'm five months on T! I like reading stories with interesting worldbuilding! Nice to meet you!

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21050246

Welcome to the trans poc community! :]

I made this group to be a safe space on the fediverse for trans poc! it's pretty white out there!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

:] 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)
 

If there's any trans poc here, come hang out! It's [email protected] / lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/transpoc

 

I made this group to be a safe space on the fediverse for trans poc! it's pretty white out there!

 
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Because cats are incapable of playing indoors

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

We need to ban women from women's restrooms. It's the only solution.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The police that I personally know, visit the caller and talk to them first to understand the complaint and often (but I agree not always) educate the caller that teenagers are just doing what the caller(s) did at their age... usually, there are no more calls and all groups move on with their lives.

do you happen to be white

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

They can't do the same things teenagers did before because the world has been growing more and more hostile to teenagers. More places have banned kids. We have these mosquito things making noises to drive teenagers away. It's become more difficult to get around without a car. Parents have become more helicoptery, not letting their kids out of the house. And "sorts itself out"? Here's what happens. Some asshole calls the cops on teenagers just hanging out. The cops, with nothing better to do than harass innocent people, show up and chase them away. Now those teenagers don't feel safe going back there, because they don't wanna get cops coming after them. Or maybe the cops don't stop at chasing the kids off! Maybe they get arrested for "loitering" or some nonsense. Maybe they get accused of dealing drugs because teenagers hanging around is strange and suspicious, and the cops love to frame innocent people. Cops getting called isn't some silly and frivilous thing.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (18 children)

So where exactly are kids supposed to go? People will go on about "they should just go outside" but kids have literally had the cops called on them for the crime of walking around their own neighborhood "unsupervised". I've seen calls to ban kids from all sorts of places - planes, theme parks, restaurants, libraries. I've seen these "mosquito" things put up to drive kids away from public places. Kids are spending all their time on social media because they have nowhere else to go.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

It's common for neopronoun users to not use them "in the wild" because they expect to be disrespected. Often they'll have a set of standard pronouns that they use normally and only pse neopronouns in spaces they know to be affirming

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

As I recall, drag has said that "dragonfucker" is not drag's gender identity. It's just a username

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

The r-slur is targeted at intellectually disabled people. It's not something for you to reclaim. When people call non-intellectually disabled autistic people that, the insult is that they're comparing them to intellectually disabed people.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

We know that human brains are still developing until around 26 years old

this isn't true by the way.

The human brain, particularly the prefrontal cortex, does not reach "full maturity" or "full development at any particular age (e.g. 16, 18, 21, 25, 30). Changes in structure and myelination of gray matter are recorded to continue with relative consistency all throughout life including until death. Different mental abilities peak earlier or later in life.

Text taken from wikipedia's list of common misconceptions. Here's a study on how the brain changes throughout life!

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Vagina Man (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
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I used to keep some spare panties around for periods but I don't have to do that anymore cause I got briefs

 

Trying to discuss race with white people is like talking to a brick wall. I just tried to talk about racism and got fucking ganged up on by white people swearing that you can only be racist if you intend to be so they aren't racist as long as they mean well. It's so fucking entitled when white people start lecturing poc about what's really racist. God.

 

I submitted the paperwork a while ago but it seems there's a pretty big delay

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