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Is anyone here attracted to men? I like very few women but have been telling people I’m lesbian/bi. (lemmings.world)

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I’m attracted to very few women, if at all, but I’ve been saying I’m a lesbian/bi.

Welcome, fellow lesbians. And is anyone here attracted to men like I am?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Zero attraction to men. I have friends who are men - they all happen to be gay and it's the way that they carry and express themselves that I enjoy, but straight men... I just absolutely can't with. It's less about their orientation and more the impact our culture has had on them. That's not to say I've not meant incredibly sweet ones, but I'd almost always rather have no company than company with them 🤷‍♀️ Women though...I can gush on and on! The way they sound, move, smell, aesthetically represent themselves and their spaces, care for one another, overcome all the challenges we face, and just exist in general. Women are harmony to me while men are just bass, but plenty of people love bass, and plenty of people love both - absolutely nothing wrong with that 🩷

[–] Fiivemacs 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ummm sorry to burst your bubble but bass literally is harmony. It provides harmonic and rhythmic support to the band or orchestra.

You can't be harmony without an instrument unless you're writing it, at which point the bass player would be the one to then deliver the harmony for all to enjoy. Very few appreciate the written harmonic notes compared to the audible harmonic notes.

Like, I kinda get when you're trying to say but I figured I'd at least pass along that info so you can potentially revise your view on harmony and bass, or not. Obviously upto you. Stay safe out there please.