I'll go first.
The first time I realized I was racist was in the summer of 1998. Ironically, my best friend at the time was Marshall Gaskin, a big, black, beautiful man: a gentle giant and an incredible artist. We lived in adjacent buildings in an artist’s co-op just outside of Toronto. I’m grateful for having known him, for he was a major influence in my life. Sadly, he is no longer with us.
One day at the co-op, I was going through the underground parking lot and came across a young black man leaning on a car door towards a young white woman seated on the other side of the open window. Without hesitation, I pointedly looked at the woman and asked,” Are you alright”? She nodded, and I walked away.
My stomach turns at the memory of it. Who the fuck was I to presume that this woman was in trouble. The same feeling I had the next day, upon realizing what I had implied to a complete stranger.
More and more, I became acutely aware of my racism. Like the time I was in an elevator with three black men much larger than me. I noticed that I felt uncomfortable, and my heart started to pound. Faster. Faster. I thought, “What the fuck. This is racism! If these were three white guys, I would be cracking jokes.” After leaving the elevator I was grateful that I could see through the bullshit. I’ve extracted and examined most of my racist moments, and although I think I will always be racist to some minor degree, I acknowledge that any is too much.
I write this because I recently recounted a story that my mother told me to a group of friends. It was a story that my uncle would often repeat about a souvenir tin plate from Niagara Falls. I realize now that this wasn’t a story about something my uncle purchased. It was a racial slur wrapped in a story that he could tell over and over again. I never liked that he enjoyed making fun of minorities, and yet here I was … participating.
I write this because I am sorry.
I write this because I’m ashamed.
I write this for Marshall.
I miss you buddy.

Thanks, I only wish more people could accomplish it.
We're all envious of how you're not rude to people in spite of their clear deficiencies.
Dude had a valid point on how our human species works. We are not created equal. Evolution just works like that. It carrys no negative or positive meaning. You just accept people who they are and at the same time dont push expectations onto others because its what you think they are.
That's racist af, you don't get to judge that people have deficiencies based on their race.
We know, which is how we know you're a big ol' racist when you said that.
You must have jumped between timelines at a very inopportune moment.
Sorry about your memory loss
Sorry your beliefs are completely incapable of being presented or supported.
Here, let me help you
https://lemmy.world/comment/17292663
https://lemmy.world/comment/17294986
Oh let's see what you have to show of you defending your beliefs!
The first is... a link to my comment saying genetics contributes to subtle differences in averages but with high variance...
and the second is... also a link to one of my comments...
You've really made my case for me, here. I am fully convinced that you cannot type out your racist beliefs because they would get you instantly banned.
At this point I can only imagine you're being purposefully obtuse.